I'm seeing this girl and she is really sweet and we get on really well but she is just not used to it. I'm not really vulgar or anything, I just tell her what I'd like to do to her and how I'm gonna do them. It seems to turn her on but she finds it hard to do the same, even though she is trying. When I am having intercourse with a girl I want her to dig her nails into my back, wrap her legs around me and say; "F**k me Johnny, f**k me now..." That does it every time. Does this make me a bit weird or is it o.k to like it that way?
2007-03-22 04:34:34 · 27 answers · asked by Jay-Dog 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's nothing wrong with enjoying dirty talk. I know it really gets me going. But I wasn't always that way -- used to be very very shy and wouldn't say a word. Then I met someone that was patient and kind with me. It didn't take long for me to know he wouldn't laugh at what I said and before long there was no holding back. Just work with her, taking little steps, and show her that you think everything about her is sexy. She may never get into it, because everyone is different. But at least you'll have fun trying. You never know!
2007-03-22 04:44:23 · answer #1 · answered by paddington_ck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people like that...me personally I can't say those things either, not sure why but I think it seems more like having JUST sex and not as intimate. Give her time to get comfortable and maybe she will do that but don't push the issue it can be a turn off for someone to nag you about something you are not comfortable doing.
Good luck
2007-03-22 04:40:08 · answer #2 · answered by Island Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my man did that once.... talked dirty in the bedroom. But we were both drunk off our a**es. We had things falling off the headboard and it was just great.
We haven't done it since because I think we were both rather shocked with what we did. It's fun to bring it up from time to time. I'm ready to go and get drunk again just so it can be a repeat night from that first night.
Dirty talk just turns some couples on more then others.
2007-03-22 04:39:25 · answer #3 · answered by Valentina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is every mans dream to have mad passionate sex every night.
It seems that she just isnt used to it. Talk to her see if she would like to but feels uncomfortable with it.
my "current" gf has that problem and it usualy takes a few drinks before she relaxes its just basically down to nerve and not being 100% relax.
Keep at it but for gods sake do not rush her, take it slow and gentle building up to that passion frenzy night.
So summary - Good night out with teasing flirting etc. few drinks + trust and being relaxed with each other she will be climbing your back in no time.
2007-03-22 04:41:30 · answer #4 · answered by Ozy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes, talking dirty while doing the deed is a turn on as long as the girl is comfortable hearing it. but she might not be comfortable doing it. if you would request that to her (to talk dirty or dig her nails into your back) it might just spoil the deed since she will be more conscious if she is doing it right. . but you can also suggest by saying "hunie, you know what I feel sexy (or turned on..whatever) if i feel your nails on my back. if feel like you really want me..." ***wink***
2007-03-22 04:42:00 · answer #5 · answered by jan-na~♥~ and im luvin it 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its' weird unless your name is something like Frankie. Then it is O.K. You should never give a girl your real name.
Most girls don't like to talk during sex - it is usually the only time they shut-up.
Teach her to say "normal" things that you can turn dirty in your mind.
2007-03-22 04:39:56 · answer #6 · answered by Cumjunkie Doner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not weird at all lots of people respond to verbal stimulation, I know I do. Your girl just needs to get over her shyness which will go in time be patient and assure her its just between you two and you won't blab about her fantasies to anyone else.
2007-03-22 04:39:45 · answer #7 · answered by isleofskye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my own adventure, i'm getting warmer while naughty nothings are breathed in my ear on an identical time as he's dealing with "his corporation". this type of turnon!!! The dirtier the extra effective. attempt it and notice for your self? do not ask permission, do exactly it!
2016-10-19 08:25:59 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes thats great not alot of guys like that like my boyfriend for example i want him to talk dirty to me i do it to him i dig my nails n his bak n he gets mad he does it to me n it turns me on its just not comfortable for some girlz!
2007-03-22 04:43:26 · answer #9 · answered by *W3D@* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's OK. But some people are not comfortable with it, and probably never will be. Can't force them to learn to like what they're not comfortable with.
2007-03-22 04:37:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋