i recentlyjust lost my best friend whom i have had for 6 years, we were closer then close like sisters, i loved her so much. and she recently kicked me out of her life, she has been acting weird and didnt really give me en explanation, id do anything for her back but its been a month now and i know shes gone. I'm so upset, i dont have close friends like she was, everytim ei lok at pictures or vidoes of all our good times, i cry for hours, i am not eating or sleeping cause of this. i dont know how to let go =( she was everything to me (not in a sexal way, but as a sister) and i feel like i just lost someone in my family, im beyond depressed, can someone help me to move on? what do i do i feeel so alone
2007-03-22 04:22:52 · 7 answers · asked by smosh 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Of course you are sad. But you have to move on. EVERYONE has friends who move in and out of their lives. It happens all through life. So many people think their happiness comes from someone else in their life and they are devistated when that person is no longer there. You can't let another person have so much control over you.
2007-03-22 04:27:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am like your friend. i got messed up, with drugs and stuff, and i walked away from my best friend so that she wouldn't get dragged down with me. i left. i had to. the worst part was when she told me she loved me (again, non sexual). she is going to be a vet, she will be happy. i will die in the gutter where i belong, with low-lifes like myself. i really love her too.
don't listen to all these people who tell you to get over it. dont ever get over it! at least, outwardly you should; get a hobby, job, husband etc. but inside, please dont ever forget her. best friends are so very rare, we are lucky to have ever had one!
it is such a secret place, the Land of Tears.
i will live there for the rest of my life. pay me a visit, you never know, your friend might just drop by.
do you want to email me? i cant help much, but i think sometimes a good listener is all you need.
2007-03-23 17:17:18 · answer #2 · answered by carl barat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not be alone i'm here dogmicjoe@yahoo.com. hold on call 1800 lifenet if u need someone else 24 hours 7 days
2007-03-22 17:07:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has made friends with the wrong group of people - i think you should be happy that you are not apart of them!! You will find new friends, but for time being - why not get a new hobby?
2007-03-22 11:29:58 · answer #4 · answered by Immortal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Snap out of it! Go out and meet other people - develop new friendships and don't allow this to weigh you down. Good luck!
2007-03-22 11:27:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
write her a lettter. that has all your feelings. its good to get things out. have someone to be there for you. good luck. and if you need someone to listen..just eMAiL me..(=
hellocriselda@yahoo.com
2007-03-22 11:26:20 · answer #6 · answered by [: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start hitting on her father, that will freak her out.
2007-03-22 11:27:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋