this guy i was talking to, im,text with seemed like he couldnt get with me enough and then he started to have all these troubles his job,kid,x wife AnD now nothing so please GuYs tell me what happened why is he not getting in touch with me ???
2007-03-22 04:17:23 · 20 answers · asked by Leveler 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Xwife read it right ppl
2007-03-22 04:31:05 · update #1
You just answered your own question. He's got problems with stuff. Leave him to work them out, then maybe he'll get back to you.
2007-03-22 04:19:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
If he really wanted to be with you, he would be...blunt but true. Don't allow him to give you some excuse so that you are left pining away over him or that he can get away with either keeping you on a line or not having to feel guilty for not actually hurting you...I say give up and move on because it seems that "he's just not that into you" and you deserve a hell of a lot better then some wishy washy guy who sends mixed messages and blames outside circumstances on why he can't be with you . You'll find someone else in time and until them I would just give up and move on. Take care and good luck:)
2007-03-22 04:30:58 · answer #2 · answered by serenity113001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he reconciled with the "X" and has had to sever the relations with you? Or maybe he is too stressed and doesn't want to burden you with it? It could be almost anything so I suggest you stay positive and I strongly encourage the incorporation of patients and understanding with this situation! Hope I've assisted you? Good luck!
2007-03-22 04:24:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like the fast & the furious.
if he has all of those troubles (lots of baggage) that u'r talking about then why r u worried about him staying in touch, it could be a RED flag as to why he's having a lot of problems. do ya think?
2007-03-22 04:25:54 · answer #4 · answered by cher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His wife might have found out that he was IMing and nipped it in the bud. Is he still online? If not, something may have happened to his computer. Maybe he realized he was becoming too dependent on his online relationship with you and backed out. So many possibilities!
2007-03-22 04:21:35 · answer #5 · answered by TAMAJ13 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know, but for some reason or another, people do change their minds, even after getting into trouble and also seeming to get what they wanted.
2007-03-22 04:22:40 · answer #6 · answered by Avner Eliyahu R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a limit to im and text. did you take it to the next step? Maybe with all his problems, he got his phone bill and found out that he couldn't afford that luxury any longer.
2007-03-22 04:21:39 · answer #7 · answered by auditor4u2007 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He might be in some major trouble or just lost interest on you.
2007-03-22 04:20:12 · answer #8 · answered by Subhendu S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has bigger things in his life to work out. He doesn't have time for you. Don't take it personally, you're both just victims of circumstance. Also, please don't type in AlTeRnAtE cApS. It's hard to read.
...Wait, wait. Did you say he has a WIFE? Leave him. You don't want him to be cheating.
2007-03-22 04:23:05 · answer #9 · answered by charlie h 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would say............................................
he has a lot on his plate right now. give him a minute, and a little space to breathe.
he will come back of it is ment to be. try calling him, and tell him that you understand that life is rough right now and that you are there for him. and that he can call you when he wants to talk about it (leave it on his answering machine if you have to)
2007-03-22 04:21:30 · answer #10 · answered by smcopeland16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋