Maybe I'm the only one that thinks so but I think porn is like cheating. Would you like it if your partner was touching themselves while watching a video of the person next door masturbating? its the same as a porno right its just that that person lives next door.
2007-03-22 04:11:10 · 12 answers · asked by carolina_juggernaut 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes I think porn is cheating . Because this person is looking at someone else. This person is getting sexually aroused and not by you. So yes porn is cheating
2007-03-22 04:16:00 · answer #1 · answered by Cassie M 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Get off your moralistic high horse. No one has ever contacted VD from watching porn. Would you rather they were out screwing someone else? Watching your neighbor is invading their privacy which is wrong. Watching porn is no different than sitting through some chick flick and about as entertaining. So yes you are just about the only one. To those who feel it is cheating, since your significant other is going to be in the dog house no matter what hopefully they will go out and do the real thing then instead of stroking one off safely at home. And when they do cheat for real hopefully they will bring a gift home to their self righteous partners. After that tell us if porn really is cheating. Next thing you'll say is having fantasies is cheating.
2007-03-22 04:16:26 · answer #2 · answered by Quix 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I DON'T think porn is like cheating, and I wouldn't say anything to my partner about it in a similar situation. In fact, my long time girlfriend (whom I mentioned in other answers, but with whom I managed to reestablish contact a few months ago) once (that was long ago) gave me a video cassette or two with porno movie. The thing is that I have nowhere to watch things like that.
2007-03-22 04:19:50 · answer #3 · answered by Avner Eliyahu R 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Erotica (porn is a negative term) has been around for many years, and in a mature, well-balanced sexual relationship, couples make allowances for ALL forms of sexual arousal and pleasure.
That means that while they may have "preferences" (as a couple and as individuals), they make allowances for various forms of arousal and satisfaction.
That means that they do not consider masturbation to be a "second-rate" form of pleasure, just because they now have the option for unlimited couples sex.
We've been married over 36 years, we have a rich and satisfying sex life, but that doesn't mean that we just "abandonded" self-pleasure. We enjoy all common forms of pleasure - intercourse, oral and solo - and make room for them in our relationship.
So, no, viewing erotica and/or pleasuring one's self to it is NOT like cheating.
It's sad that some women - and men, for that matter - have this personal issue that ALL sexual pleasure within the relationship must come directly from THEM, and that the other person is somehow not allowed to pleasure themselves.
2007-03-24 02:27:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, porn is not cheating. It means you have a normal and healthy sex drive. If you have two relationships going on at the same time, that's cheating whether there's sex involved or not.
2007-03-22 04:18:41 · answer #5 · answered by Amy V 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't like it if my partner were doing this at all, in fact I split with one for doing just that.
It is a form of cheating and yes, it IS pornography.
Your partner may have a sexual addiction too.
It can also make you feel very insecure about your relationship with your partner and for good reason.
I would open the lines of communication and see what you get. It doesn't sound to me like a healthy relationship if he is seeking sexual gratification outside the home
Good luck! :)
2007-03-22 04:15:53 · answer #6 · answered by ivy9toes 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think alot of women, have felt that way. I am sure your not alone. Me I think it is cheating, especially if it's kept as a secret.
2007-03-22 04:21:35 · answer #7 · answered by steppy 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I agree but on the other hand, they 're never going to cheat on you for real.
2007-03-22 04:15:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
porn is NOT cheating if you're with someone
2007-03-22 04:18:52 · answer #9 · answered by wontgetfooledagain 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ewww, well im ok with my partner viewing porn
2007-03-22 04:14:46 · answer #10 · answered by sweethyedreamer213 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋