me and my sis havent been close since we were 7 & 8 me being the oldest she doesnt respect me at all she thinks i won't stand up to her and it's hard to be the better person here bcuz she never apoligizes for anything not to no one and she gets into more trouble then i do she used to hurt me intentionally and physically even emotionally she rats me out on evrything she can think of she even got some bright idea in her head that i've slept with my bf and thought i was pregnant which DIDN'T happen not a day goes by now that we don't argue in fact thats all we do anymore am i wrong for not wanting her in my life anymore i have tried evrything i can think of to make ammence with her but nothing seems to work she continues to bring stuff up at the wrong time to this morning (last day of ghsgt ) she chose to bring stuff up and everytime i just cant stand for it i have to leave her presence in the last week i had had to leave home without notice to refrain from fighting with her i hate her
2007-03-22 04:10:12 · 4 answers · asked by Big girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you are sisters.... Do you remember the old saying about how you can't pick your relatives? Well it's true... I know where you are coming from though. I think you should re-think the hate thing though.. My sister and I are close in age and we fought constantly in high school (literally fist fights). Now that we are older, we get along great, and our kids are best friends. Sibling Rivalry tends to fade as you get older, so just hang in there. Oh, and good luck until then!
2007-03-22 04:20:19 · answer #1 · answered by April 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, what a stressful situation you seem to be in. I was curious as to how old you are. The reason I wondered is because I am from a big family, there's 5 girls & a 1 boy. We are all adults now, & we all have different lives, however, no matter how bad we fought when we were younger, even as adults we still argue at times, we know that we are family. I am the youngest. I was probably like that to my sister at times, but mostly I had my own life & my own things to worry about. If you are still young, you may hate her now, although hate is a very strong word, I will accept it for now, lol, but may find that later in life, you will want to talk to her again. For now, if you feel you must stay away from her or be distanced from her, than do so, but I think in time you may want to reconnect with her. I do hope the best for you & your sister, & I hope this has helped you out some. Take care, & best wishes.
2007-03-22 04:23:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although I do not have a sister ( I grew up with 2 brothers), I understand how you mean with dealing with sibs who can't get along. Since you are still not adults yet and have not gone through a lot in life, you may not realize yet how much you and your sister need each other. But later on in life, when you have gone throught the same experiences in life (college, boyfriends, marriage, kids) you and her will be closer. In the meantime, try not to kill each other (lol). When you both go to different colleges, stay in touch and keep her in your life. Your distance will ironically bring you two closer, as one sister is not there to annoy the other and you will miss it. Be more patient, and try not the anger you feel for her turn into hate. Remember she is still your sister and she knows you more than your friends do.
2007-03-22 07:13:47 · answer #3 · answered by Tammy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be extra nice to her and make her feel guilty, my sister is a pain in the butt too but everybody sees me being nice and her horrible and eventually she gets sick of looking like a moron and gives up, it is pbviously in her nature, maybe she thinks you are the favoured one and feels the need to compete?
2007-03-24 05:27:06 · answer #4 · answered by lezzers2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋