Save my life by answering this question...wil u guys help me?
i am in luv wit a guy who is 29 and i am21.v r in luv 4 six yrs. He luvs me SINCERELY( thats y he has been with me for 6 yrs and stil he doesnt want to move away fom me) and we ve even crossed the limits at times.he scolds me severly if i don obey him.he always used 2 think after al i am a gal.wenever noone is tere at his home he used to cal me and again v ll cros the limits.since he is financially weak i ve helped him many times by givin jewels and money and he never bothers 2 retun it. he used 2 cry wen i tel him tat i ll go away from him.my dad loves me a lot. our family wont accept 4 luv marriag at any cost bcos tey ve the opinion it ll bring tem a bad reputation.i don ve guts to tel my dad.he is not tryin 2 cheat me bcos he has been wit me for 6 yrs.i don ve mom so evrybody ll put the blame on me 4 my moms death (it's bcos of her daughters love she committed suicide-peopl wil say lik this) wat should i do now? please help me..
2007-03-22 04:06:59 · 6 answers · asked by anjana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
uh...this is pretty complicated.
First, if you have been in love for 6 yrs, that means you were FIFTEEN (15) and he was 23!!! uh...bad!!
Nxt, now u r 21 and your life is your own. If your dad doesnt like him because he's concernced about his own reputation, disregard that.
3rd, stop giving him stuff. He's 29 and you are only enabling him. He needs to grow up and learn to take care of himself so if he's broke, let him struggle. Trust me, you are not helping him by bailing him out.
Lastly - you fell in love with this guy at a very vulnerable age. I dont think that this relationship sounds like a healthy one, but if you really want to know, i would suggest taking a few months apart from each other to see if anything is still there between you.
2007-03-22 04:16:22 · answer #1 · answered by zeke58 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl first set ur priorities ! decide what u really whant from life ! and what u want can this guy of ur's provide that ?? ok i belive u that he is not cheating u coz he has been wit u for 6yrs ! but don't marriges brake after 10 -15 yrs ??u said he is financialy week ! will he b able 2 suport u ??? if he did nt bother 2 return u d money ....it's ok that is b/w u 2 ! but is he thankfull 2 u 4 that ?? and most of all think sencibly before u act ! and when u do don't regreat !
2007-03-23 06:47:39 · answer #2 · answered by ace ! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 08:24:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question was very hard to read. However, he doesn't LOVE you honey. He loves the meal ticket you're giving him. Move on.
2007-03-22 04:14:19 · answer #4 · answered by Jessie P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn to spell and maybe someone will try reading you quesstion.
2007-03-22 04:12:47 · answer #5 · answered by angie a 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WOW that was confusing i didnt really understand it but u no wat go with ur heart!
2007-03-22 04:12:58 · answer #6 · answered by cutie wit a booty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋