read somewhere that if you ignore your ex then they want you back?
my gf split up with me almost 2 months ago, was talking at first then it got messy. she left it she never wanted to see/speak to me ever again- which after two years pi**ed me off.
anyhow she text me last week asknig for some old photos . she never once said how are you? are you ok?
came across realy bitchy and nothing like her. I text back being polite but then never got a reply.
my mates are telling me she wants me to chase her again though I havent. Im just ingoring her and getting on with my life.
i know you people dont know the full story or her/myself though will she ever get in contact with me again? i do miss her and i just wondering if she miss's me at all?
we were together 2 years just so you know.
2007-03-22 03:58:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah i did piss her off- after she broke up i was drunk and hurting and with a mates advise- i told her i cheated on her when we were together ( i know not a good move)
anyhow i dropped hte photos round her house without a note or anything- so she has got what she wanted
2007-03-22 04:36:45 · update #1
just would of been nice to have a how are you doing! meen after 2 years and then nothing it bugs me
2007-03-22 04:37:15 · update #2
the same reason she doesn't want to be u'r boyfriend, maybe u should read a book on making her feel special instead of ignoring her. i think u'r mates are wrong, because she hasn't given any indication of wanting u back at all. even though u were together for 2 years, u seem to be moving on pretty quickly. sounds like u did something to pi-- her off first.
2007-03-22 04:14:03 · answer #1 · answered by cher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it such an issue after two years? Perhaps you have not fully moved on, maybe you regret what has happened-but she obviously had her reasons for leaving you and it really is very difficult to be just friends with someone that you have had a long term relationship with. Perhaps her life has moved on and she doesn't want to be reminded of her past, and even though you may not like that is what you are to her.
2007-03-22 05:07:49 · answer #2 · answered by Very happily married. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats tough. Texting is hard b/c you never know the persons emotion, you can't see it or hear it. My ex is doing the same thing right now but it's through emailing... I wouldn't text her back, if it's about the pictures and just the pictures, she'ell find a way to get them. If it's about seeing you again, she'ell make the effort to call or text again. But be careful, if you do see her and things are great, just take things slow. Good luck.
2007-03-22 04:06:03 · answer #3 · answered by Heather L 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
JD
Move on and mean it. Being bitchy is not attractive. Pissing you off is not either. Find someone that deserves you better. She has the cheek to tell your mates that she WANTS you to chase her. And what does that makes her? If someone loves you , she will never do thing to hurt you. Feeling that you missed her is normal phase of breaking up. Do you want your heart to be broken by her AGAIN?
Think JD think
2007-03-22 04:05:48 · answer #4 · answered by shida2606 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Despite the time you were together, you both need time to heal. However, you're contradicting yourself. You say you're ignoring her and getting on with your life, but you want to know if she misses you? It seems like you're playing the same game she is, except you're the only player.
Get out and explore the world more. You're going to miss her - a long relationship being severed is like your lifestyle completely changing - but find out what you've been missing with her in your life. I'm not encouraging you to be a manwhore; just enjoy yourself and do things with your friends. It'll take time, but realize you don't need someone to harass you.
If you want to become amicable but not lovers, the greatest thing you can do is if you see her in person, just start with "Hey, what's up?" Then assimilate her with your friends. I once had a girlfriend and we had a rough break up, but she came downtown with me and my buds once and after a few drinks, we were joking around with each other without being romantically tied. It healed up alot of rough things with us, and it got much better. Granted we don't speak now, it's good to see that we can both be civil without being petty.
2007-03-22 04:06:23 · answer #5 · answered by Kylonaut 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
properly first tell your parents that they are writing those issues to you. And if that is going to become a concern with a combat then be certain you have your human beings their too{{jk}}yet battling ends up in extra problems...and if she nevertheless wont flow away you on my own touch the messanger gadget thingy for the inproper habit thingy...all i will say is to in basic terms tell your parents (or some older grownup which you will tell issues to)what she has been asserting to you and in the event that they belive you they'll comprehend extra and might assist you to extra...yet once you in basic terms ingore her long sufficient along with her cussing you out and each little thing she might grow to be uninterested in it{she could be finding for a reaction}}thats all i will relatively say to you..yet wish you get even though it
2016-10-19 08:23:02 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plz do not try to read what is not written.if your instincts tell you it was bitchy and not like her, it means it is clear you are NOT IN HER GOOD BOOKS.So, wake up and smell the coffee. If she wanted you to chase her , she would have left enough hints starting from being polite and "herself". FACE the truth when it stares at you. Move on...
2007-03-22 04:06:13 · answer #7 · answered by An C 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
alot of exs dont stay friends as it complicates matters i think out of all my boyfriends i only talk to two and that is just in passing i dont text them or anything. depending on y u split she may still be hurt upset or mad she may come round in time just leave her to it and if she still doesnt contact you and still remains the bitchy ex then cut all ties yourself and dont give her the time of day.shes had long enough to decide if u can be amicable or not after 2 years
2007-03-22 04:34:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi i`ve been through the same situation && sometimes people feel weird ya know or whatever after beinq in a relationship with someone it feels weird to go to friends bc its just not the same the only way to really tell her or let ur feelinqs out is maybe call her && ask her out to lunch or somethinq that way it be a face to face thinq & nice as well.
2007-03-22 04:06:14 · answer #9 · answered by brittanyluhhsyooh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes a while to be "just friends" again,....or it might be the first time in some people's cases. Either way, sometimes that can't happen either.....sometimes......you share your most intimate and close feelings and yourself with someone.....and then one day.....you two don't even talk anymore. It's life. It hurts. But everything goes on.
2007-03-22 04:02:36 · answer #10 · answered by kurious kat 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋