i have known this bloke for a few weeks and the other day he called and asked if i could help him, he was in garage and his card was refused ..so i gave him my card details ....i checked my bank account the other day and there was 2 transactions on sun and one on tues amounting to £40
i cancelled my card and now have to wait till mon for new one
i asked him if he had been using it he said yes and apologised ...i told him he should have just asked
he said he was a c*nt for doing it
do i trust him again ?
im thinking no
this morning he went to use it again and he had to leave his watch as payment ....
2007-03-22 03:53:20 · 21 answers · asked by cowgirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you've found yourself a looser! He's definitely taking advantage of you, and your generosity. If you've only known him for a few weeks, and he's doing this already.....what will it be like when he's way more comfortable with you!?! This is a relationship going now where, I'd end my association, and NEVER give personal info like that to anyone! When he asks for anything again, tell him your not comfortable lending to friends, etc. and if he pushes the issue, tell him it sounds like a personal problem. Be strong, good luck!
2007-03-22 04:03:08 · answer #1 · answered by Green eyed girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG what are you thinking..NEVER EVER give anyone your bank details...now get down to the bank and close the account...this guy is gonna milk you....he's taken money from your account...he's taking you for a ride...this guy is broke and is playing on your generosity...don't allow it....and i do agree with something he said...yes he is a c**t for breaking into your account and not asking...ditch this guy and don't give him anything else....learn by your mistakes girl....don't be a pushover, he prolly don't have a pot to piss in so don't fall for his sob stories about handing in his watch to pay for something...why doesn't this guy go out and get a job....he's a leech....don't ever trust this guy again....i smell a rat my dear....your being used....he didn't think he was c**t when he was fleecing money from your account....get shut...he's trouble
2007-03-22 04:03:37 · answer #2 · answered by Dazzlebox 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first a tellin off!! never give your card details out to someone you dont know no matter how polite and friendly they are, look out for yourself, you are no 1 priority!
if he is doing this after a couple of weeks of knowing you wen it is blatently wrong can you imagion what he wouold do if you were a couple of 2 yrs and he feels everything is 50/50.
this guy will bleed you dry and get you in a lot of debt and not help you in return, get out while you can!!
its a valuble lesson to learn make sure you learn from it!!
good luck
2007-03-22 04:14:11 · answer #3 · answered by sweetness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
Never do that again , and no I would not trust him again . You were just trying to be nice and look what happens you get taken advantage of .
Learn from your mistakes .
Take care
C
2007-03-22 04:01:20 · answer #4 · answered by Constance M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh hell no. Certainly do not trust him again, he's not only shady but also so broke that he's stealing money from you without any remorse... If he had remorse, he wouldn't have tried doing it again. He's playing you for a fool sweety b/c you must be a wonderful person.
2007-03-22 04:01:28 · answer #5 · answered by Heather L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's a thief - possibly a confiedence trickster.
I would even consider reporting him to the police.
It's one thing to help a friend out another thing entirely for them to continue using your card details - what a lowlife!
2007-03-22 03:59:58 · answer #6 · answered by Leapling 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you trust him again, then you might well end up like a glass, instead of a mug. He will break you!!!
Trust me instead and give me your card details ...lol
2007-03-22 03:59:53 · answer #7 · answered by Goldenheart 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you from the planet "Trust anyone with your bank details"?
I think you know the answer to this one, you've been had and now you must learn from it.
2007-03-22 03:59:34 · answer #8 · answered by isleofskye 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully you've learned a valuable lesson here. You don't EVER give your credit card information to other people!!
Don't trust him again.
2007-03-22 03:58:26 · answer #9 · answered by mykidsrsaints 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are being taken for more than a mug hunny. that was a very very very silly thing to do i wouldnt even give my close friends that kind of detail.
2007-03-22 04:30:46 · answer #10 · answered by dubgirl26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋