2007-03-22 03:49:22 · 11 answers · asked by coppertv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Calm down a little?
2007-03-22 03:51:35 · answer #1 · answered by Gary W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, ask three of your closest friends or family members what they think have them write it down and mail it to you anonmyously so you don't have to look at them when they tell you something that you might not be ready to hear..and don't go to people who you know are intimidated by you because you won't get an honest answer. Then write down the top three to five things that they said that are negative. I'm sure there will be a common theme especially if these people are genuinely concerned about you and your quest to be a better person.
Go from there work on those "issues" to improve your people skills. If then after you've worked on your people skills and communication glitch and men still think that you're aggressive and intimidating, then you don't want to be with a man who can't accept a confident woman.
2007-03-22 03:57:24 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, what's wrong with that? It's better than being thought of as weak and passive. A lot of guys actually find aggressive women sexy.
2007-03-22 05:29:22 · answer #3 · answered by Rio Madeira 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with the way you are, as long as it's not offensive and turns everyone away from you.
But how do you know all guys think that way?
I'm sure some guys are looking for just that sorta woman.
2007-03-22 03:58:26 · answer #4 · answered by daffy duck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find one who is not a sissy. You are who you are. Putting on a front would just make you unhappy. You might have to put a little more effort into getting to know a guy more before he'll date you, but thats not all bad.
2007-03-22 03:53:13 · answer #5 · answered by vospire s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe back off a little bit. You might be coming on too strong.
2007-03-22 03:56:28 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what men think... Just be yourself... We are all special in our own way. A man would only be a man if he can accept us women the way we are. So be yourself and enjoy!
2007-03-22 03:54:42 · answer #7 · answered by shida2606 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find guys who don't mind a little ***-kicking. Or soften up a bit.
2007-03-22 03:52:51 · answer #8 · answered by blueshoe711 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try lowering your level of aggresiveness...some people tend to say that to me sometimes...but Ive learned to manage it.
2007-03-22 03:52:54 · answer #9 · answered by boricua_chick_21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try a change of attitude towards boys..
maybe you tend to be too cuddly, or you know what, you should try being modest and 'reserved'..
2007-03-22 03:53:38 · answer #10 · answered by hmm.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋