Me and my boyfriend were together for 3 months when i had to go away for a little while unexpectingly. i had talked to him and he told me he loved me and he told me he would wait for me. i trusted him to the fullest. Well before me and him started dating there was this girl he called his "Best Friend". I tried to be comfortable around her and she was just too open with herself it was gross. so of course i have never been comfortable for them to hang out alone. well when i was gone he hung out with her because "she makes him feel better" and he hesitated to tell me that because i "didn't ask" well i found out yesterday now that it has been 3 months later that while i was gone that they kissed. he said it meant nothing and that he is sorry and it didnt' mean anything. she is the type of person that just doesnt go away. he definately gave her mixed signals. he still wants to be together because it has been 6 months but he hurt me really bad. What should i Do?
2007-03-22 03:38:24 · 6 answers · asked by imsickofurlies 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
leave b/c kissing leads to other things. If he kissed her then eventually they will end up sleeping together. I know from experience b/c my bf kissed this girl and a few months later they ended up sleeping together and he got her pregnant and she is one of those who don't know how to leave if u know what i mean. Look u need to leave him trust me dont make the same mistake i did b/c u will only get hurt in the long run. I wished like hell i would of left. I know u love him but its not worth u getting hurt and cheated on. Find u a guy who is in to u and not some other girl. Theres more fish in the sea then u think. Good luck.
2007-03-22 03:50:55 · answer #1 · answered by biggest_duke_fan_ever@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"she is the type of person that just doesnt go away" .... You said that and that being said answers the question. She broke you up and he wants to get back with you and she is still in the picture? You know where thats gonna end. Just leave him in your past. Your relationship will never be the same and you will never be able to have complete trust. You deserve better. You deserve to be someones number 1 instead of his number 2 priority.
2007-03-22 03:46:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your head. Your heart will follow. In emotional situations, turn to logic. (And in logical dilemmas, look to emotion.) Thats some great advice thats helped me in life.
2007-03-22 03:43:08 · answer #3 · answered by bob c 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it was just a kiss - forgive him!! people make mistakes!! he wants to be with you -and not with her!! but you have to create boundaries
2007-03-22 03:44:23 · answer #4 · answered by Immortal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree
2007-03-22 03:47:29 · answer #5 · answered by Michael Smith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forgive him and if you can't then move on
2007-03-22 03:42:58 · answer #6 · answered by inmate3685 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋