few days ago I decided to tell a friend I loved her. The only thing is she told me she thought of me as a really good friend and nothing else, she also told me she liked someone else. The problem is I can't stop thinking about her, and don't want to give up. What do I do now?
2007-03-22 03:31:04 · 16 answers · asked by Matthew H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Learn to take NO for an answer from a friend.
2007-03-22 03:35:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you invest enough time in anyone they are bound to fall for you. Flowers, cards, notes and physical appearance makes even a toad seem appealing. The REAL question is ARE YOU UP FOR THAT? Is she really worth the sacrifice? The best thing to do for the friendship is to carry on like nothing happened. If she wants you she will come to you. How much would you do for love and would it be temporary or eternal? Is a good friendship worth overlooking for love or can you understand what is going on and move on?choice is yours.
2007-03-22 10:38:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to move on obviously it is clear that she only likes you as a good friend and if you keep trying you will loose her as a friend too. It's time to move on and find someone else who will like you back the way you want.
2007-03-22 10:36:00 · answer #3 · answered by Pearl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel ya I have had a similar trouble recently and I'm just trying to stay busy and keep my mind on other things yest d/l a new game to pc read watched tv just stay busy do the things you did before you knew your friend good luck
2007-03-22 10:42:57 · answer #4 · answered by Leveler 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow i was in the exact situation a few years ago!
i was in love with my best friend! he was amazing we had a great bond always light flirted but in away that never crossed the line! anyway! about 2-3 years in to our friendshiop after been madly in love with him since the moement i saw him i told him i loved him! he said that he had no idea and that he just wanted to be friends! i was fine with this as all i wanted was for it to be off my chest...but
little did i know that it would start playing tricks on his mind to, he started seeing me as more then a friend!
in the end we ended up having a weird friendship and relationship! we didnt want to lose each other as best friends but couldnt fight our feelings...
HOW IT ENDED... we no longer talk, he broke my heart, i broke his... think really hard are you willing to lose your friendship over these feelings? she may love you to but you are both gambling with a beautiful friendship!
i wish you all the luck! as i sometimes wish it worked for me!
2007-03-22 10:45:09 · answer #5 · answered by SWANNY AND SNUGGLES! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing u can do is respect her honesty and try and find someone else. If she doesn't feel the same way u feel about her, well u can't make her.
2007-03-22 10:38:46 · answer #6 · answered by Mi$$ P3rf3ct 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That means you are only good as a friend. If you want more, change yourself and become a good lover. Be more mature (girls like maturity) and you'll get someone better than her!
take care
2007-03-22 10:46:32 · answer #7 · answered by Goldenheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you keep showing her your feelings then you will end up losing her as a friend too! she may start to feel you cant be friends cos its hurting you to see her! take my advice and be just friends with her, dont mention it, she knows how you feel now, the ball is in her court and can do what she wants with it!
think to yourself this, would you rather talk to her again and push her out your life or be just mates and have her still in your life!! i know what id choose
good luck
2007-03-22 10:49:31 · answer #8 · answered by sweetness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to continue your friendship with her then back off a little bit...she's told you how she feels and it's not the same feelings that you have.....she wants someone else....sometimes having a female mate is better than having a girlfriend....stick to the plan and stay mates....otherwise you could end up losing her both ways
2007-03-22 10:44:02 · answer #9 · answered by Dazzlebox 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on if it's ment to be it will be. Don't put off living in the now, waiting for somebody to love you. Enjoy the present and maybe she will change her mind or maybe you will meet somebody even better.
2007-03-22 10:36:58 · answer #10 · answered by smiley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋