he broke up with me two month ago from a two year relationship his reason was we grew apart, we agreed to ring each other last night and he kept ringing me but not saying anything, then he rang an was talking to me, we are hanging on saturday with a group of people mostly lads, there is a lad who fancies me an is always touching me i told my ex about it an my ex just went really quiet an i had to say his name to get him to talk this will be the first time we have hung together and he knows that the lad who fancies me will be flirting will this make him jealous another thing he still wears the ring i bought him, does he still like me, do you think he will ask me back out do you think there could be a good chance on saturday, how will i know if he likes me on sat
2007-03-22 03:30:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry but I would give up on him. Seems more trouble than whats he worth.
Plenty of more fish in the sea as my mom always says x
2007-03-22 03:34:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok.. so first of all stop with the games! you only live once! If you dont like this other guy then stay away from him and dont try and make the guy you want jealous! Getting back with an ex is a bad idea! If u really want to give it another try though.. Talk to him! Lay the cards out on the table find out where u stand and then u can sort it once and for all! Tell him exactly how u feel and then if u get back together dont rush into it take it slow and go with the flow dont push for it but if he doesnt want to be with u anymore then just move on! There are sooo many good guys out there and so many different people to meet and getting over someone is the hardest thing but once you do you will definately look back and think WHY THE HELL DID I MAKE SUCH A FUSS!!! Trust me its always like that!!! Good Luck and just take each day as it comes!
2007-03-22 10:43:55 · answer #2 · answered by zara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to get back with him so bad? You have to work really hard on making a relationship work and communication is a huge part of it! People do grow apart, it happens usually from lack of communication and interests.
I think you should move on. Flirting with someone else in front of your ex isn't cool either. Making someone jealous isn't the way to go. Letting someone else "always touch you" isn't cool either if you want to get back with your ex. Give it time, don't push him into anything. Show him you mature and okay without him. Stand up tall! Good luck :)
2007-03-22 10:37:37 · answer #3 · answered by Laea 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound waaaaay too desperate and that will have running miles in the other direction. Cool it and let him make the moves otherwise accept it is over and move on. Jealousy is a dangerous game to play and could have the opposite effect.
2007-03-22 10:35:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ex's are ex's for a reason honey....if he is silent then get someone who knows how to talk....this guy seems to lack in something...do you really wanna get back with him or are you just feeling lonely because he's not with you any more?...as for the lad who touches you...tell him straight to keep his hands off you or his testicles will be making contact with your foot....get another boyfriend hun, dont waste time on time wasters
2007-03-22 10:36:18 · answer #5 · answered by Dazzlebox 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should subdue yourself, and let him rule you for that is what you are going to get if you keep up being obsessed by this guy. Take a shower and wash him off your skin, free yourself of him if you want a happy life.
2007-03-22 10:35:43 · answer #6 · answered by markos m 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he's wearing the ring it must mean something, and if you still like him then your in luck. it sounds like he still has feelings for you. if you want to get back together then try to spend more time with him. god bless.
2007-03-22 10:37:09 · answer #7 · answered by Patrick D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on,do you really want to play games?These silly games can go on for ages and will just do your head in.
2007-03-22 10:37:09 · answer #8 · answered by becx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you will know is to live dangerously. You know that is what you are doing.
2007-03-22 10:37:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be to obvious - let him do the running - you will know - but do not waste time if he does not come forward.
2007-03-22 10:33:34 · answer #10 · answered by deep in thought 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋