My daughter (now 17) used to be a 16 year old rebel. when she started going to a church youth group (pentecostal, assemblies of God). it was like woah!!!! she changed drastically. before you know ir, she's praying over everybody and everything. now she's the good kid in our family. i was thinking, if church did this to her, if my other kids started going to church, would their lives change drastically too. i want whats best for them, and something seems missing in my life. my daughter been begging me to come with her. should i go? should we make it a family thing and all go?
2007-03-22 03:29:57 · 33 answers · asked by luv my kids nasty comm. unwanted 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
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2007-03-22 03:32:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think you should definitely try it out. If your daughter is enjoying it, chances are your other children will too. They must have a good youth program since she is enjoying it. However all kids aren't the same. Some may take to it right away and some not. We were always forced into going to church and I think it was a good thing. We were never forced to believe in anything though. We were just told while we lived under my parents roof we would go. We got to do alot of things with the youth group (skiing, amusement parks, camping trips etc). My brother never got big into it. Now he's in his 30's has kids and chooses to go every week and take his boys. He is a big believer, and his life is wonderful. I've looked at the changes in his life since he really gave it over to God and they have been huge! (His business is growing, and he is doing wonderful!) His boys love it too. Just have to find the right church with the right programs!
2007-03-22 03:45:47 · answer #2 · answered by debrenee211 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's exactly what happened to me! At age 16, I accepted Jesus Christ as my Savior. I had gone with a friend of mine to an Assemblies of God church. It's now 32 years later, and I still choose to worship in the Assemblies of God church. They have strong youth programs. your family would probably enjoy it. Go, and hear the message, and then decide for yourself. Remember, JESUS is the only way to Heaven, not the A/G or any other church/denomination. But the A/G would be a great place to go and learn.
2007-03-22 03:44:58 · answer #3 · answered by Char 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It certainly wouldn't hurt. Realistically, children in the home are not going to be influenced by a couple of hours in church every week. The parents in the home have to change and be willing to allow God to work in their lives and they have to live it everyday, not just on Sundays at church. Kids are lie detectors and unless you as a parent truly plan to change your lifestyle and live the way the Bible says to, then bringing your kids to church is not going to change them. I think it's wonderful about your daughter wanting to live for God, but you might not have that same desire from your other children. I think you should go to see for yourself, you might be surprised. Also, you say you want what's best for them, but what about you? We all need a relationship with Christ no matter how young or old we are. Just remember to have an open mind about the teachings at this church and DO YOUR OWN BIBLE RESEARCH!
2007-03-22 03:42:37 · answer #4 · answered by lsutiger4god 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the Pentecostal church really scared me as the one that I went to, showed no signs of one of the the fruits of the spirit which is self control and I believe that you must have that.
But... I understand they are not all like that and can't be judged this way.
I would say that you need to examine your faith, pray for a clear choice on this issue and believe the Lord will guide you to the church or pastor of your choice. Wherever 2 or more are gathered.
My kids and I study the bible together via internet church.
You can check it out and see if it is right for you if you like.
www.gbible.org
2007-03-22 03:34:42 · answer #5 · answered by sassinya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems your daughter began going to church because she made the (wise) decision that she needed God in her life. Unless your other kids make that same decision, or are open to making that decision, they'll feel resentful if you "make" them go.
I was faced with this situation when I first began attending church. As my kids saw me change into a new person, they decided one by one that they wanted to go, too. However, the youngest was set against it. I didn't force her to go although my pastor suggested I make her attend. I explained that you can lead a sheep to water, but only the Holy Spirit can make it thirsty enough to take a drink! Eventually, my youngest began attending -- and so, my entire family is now saved.
There's one thing you've left out of your story, though -- are you a believer? This will naturally affect your children's desire to go. If you're "on fire for God," they're more likely to go than if you're "lukewarm." Examine your own faith and how you project it onto your family. If you faith isn't strong, please understand that your family will be similarly sluggish. When your faith becomes strong, you'll see changes in them, too.
2007-03-22 03:40:22 · answer #6 · answered by Suzanne: YPA 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Church isn't what changed your daughter, it was accepting Jesus into her heart. Yes you should go. God will do changes in you and bring your family so close together its amazing. Nothing should be done in this life without the guidance of God. I haven't always been a Christian, but after becoming a believer God has blessed my marriage and family in away I couldn't even explain. I pray that you take this step. With God on your side who can be against you. God bless
2007-03-22 03:36:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with everyone visiting the church one Sunday, and seeing how you feel about it - particularly because it would display your support of your daughters new, gentler behavior.
Religious practice as a family is really good way to bond. There's an old saying that goes "the family that prays together, stays together." I definitely recomend introducing some sort of family spiritual practice - praying, reading scriptures together, going to church together.
Let me add, that as a parent, you do have a right to inspiration in leading your family. You can pray to know what is right, and you should have discernable feelings letting you know.
2007-03-22 03:44:44 · answer #8 · answered by daisyk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? Being involved in a church family is a great way to connect as a family, learn about humanity, learn about God, and find something bigger than yourself to be a part of. For those that are serious, there is no way to NOT change. For those that aren't serious, they will eventually stop going anyway. But I think it's a great thing for kids to learn and grow. I would go and be excited about it... the joy will become contagious. My kids (three young boys) love going to church and will call me out if I miss it!!
2007-03-22 03:37:16 · answer #9 · answered by Cool Dad 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know your question has answered mine. My daughter goes every wed. shes 9 yrs. old. My husband and I have normal couple arguments but we stopped going to church about 7 years ago and I think it would be a good thing in any ones life. Look how much better your relationship is with your daughter. I'm going to make an effort to go I hope you give it a chance too. Your daughter sure would love it, mine will too.
2007-03-22 03:37:47 · answer #10 · answered by stefani h 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes GO! God can change your life! Take your kids to church and worship with them. I stopped going for about 4 years and then went back. What a difference in my 15 year old daughter. There is only one way and that is through faith in God.
2007-03-22 03:34:00 · answer #11 · answered by Patti T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋