I love a girl. A month ago she told me that she had a boyfriend who was studying overseas. I thought maybe four years separation could abate their mutual love or maybe his boyfriend would find a job overseas so they wouldn't stay together. So i continued to contact with her regardless of all. A week ago, once i called her, she told me that her boyfriend came back.
I was hit heavily by this message. I wanna discontinue contacting with her but i found that i'm in deep love with her. I can't pull myself from her attraction at all, yet she still likes to contact with me.
I am in a great pain. What shall i do?
no revilement,please. I am serious!
2007-03-22 03:17:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you might not realize it, but you were wishing her a heartbreak. for a girl to tell you that she has a boyfriend means she's in love with him.if she's interested in you, she'll not tell you anything of such but instead, go with the flow and enjoy herself. the fact that she likes to contact you doesn't mean she fancies you that way.she may just fancy you as a friend.besides, since her boyfriend got back, has she been contacting you like she used to? if her heart is not there and she feels no attraction, there's little or nothing you can do about it.if she's happy with her bf, let go.If you really love something, you'll set it free.as for your pain, time will make it fade away. it always does.
2007-03-22 03:57:28 · answer #1 · answered by kikky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know your feelings, tell her you understand she's in a relationship already and you can't have contact with her because it will hurt you too much. If you love her and haven't had anything with her and you continue contact with her it will only get worse for you if she doesn't reciprocate. move on, find other interests. Its hard but you can do it.
2007-03-22 10:28:35 · answer #2 · answered by Charisma 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She told you from the very beginning that she had a bf - you should not have pursued someone that had already made it clear that she only wanted friendship. You need to move on and find someone that is actually SINGLE!!
2007-03-22 10:23:06 · answer #3 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
sorry tyo hear that
this is a problem which u should solve it by yourslef.
u spend you lifetime wit some thing that is not clear.make it clear.friendship & love is a matter that both should be in agreement with that.
speak with her.if she doesnt want u,ok,find some one else and try to forget her( very hard,i know)
i hope u solve it as soon as possible
success go with u
2007-03-22 10:27:40 · answer #4 · answered by mehryar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well obviously you knew the situation from the beginning, but because of your attraction you still entertained the idea of dating her. if you don't trust yourself to have a healthy enough relationship with what u know is reality than you have to cut your losses and investments and move on.
2007-03-22 10:27:26 · answer #5 · answered by Dre l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has a boyfriend there's nothing you can do unless they break up so move on and find someone available! i know it's probably not what you want to hear but it's the truth
2007-03-22 10:22:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahh love so mysteriuos an painfull... nah! just joking look if you really love her let her go, IF he loves her boyfriend BUT if she tells you she loves you go! tell her to fight for your love and break up with her boyfriend. you may love her that deep but trust me if i tell you that its not worth it if she doesnt love you and loves his boyfriend, in the end the only solution is to ask her who she really love if its you shell break up with her present bf if not... well all is fair in love and war.. JUST LET GO. Be thankfull that you have the chance to express your love to her. After all not many has that chance in there love life riight?
2007-03-22 10:25:55 · answer #7 · answered by hikari 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her how you feel! and if she dosent like that then u just need to move on!
2007-03-22 10:22:06 · answer #8 · answered by LiL♥R0CA QT <333 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing to do unless she doesn't want him anymore.
2007-03-22 10:21:51 · answer #9 · answered by moulin.rouge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋