I'm 34 yrs old.. live at home with my mom, due to some financial problems and the fact there is NO job out there that I want to do. Hey, whats wrong with free rent?? ;) ;)
Anyway, I've been with this girl for almost 10 years.. and it's to the point where my mom does NOT approve of her. Hey, MOM KNOWS BESTEST RIGHT? ;)
Anyway, every time I mention it, she gets so sad and upset, it's almost disgusting to watch. I wanna laugh.
Basically, my mom says that she does not approve nor want me to be with her so I have to listen to her. How do I give this girl of 10 years the boot to the curb??
2007-03-22 03:13:38 · 4 answers · asked by andrew a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
youve been with her for 10 years, and your leaving her because your mom says? move out and grow some balls mammas boy
2007-03-22 03:23:30 · answer #1 · answered by Youll See 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have wasted 10 unfulfilling years of your gf's life and what does that makes you?.You stay with your mom and that makes you a freeloader who doesn't wanna get a job and KEEP it. Ask you mom why she is not approved of your relationship with this girl? And can your girl do something about it? You know maybe If you get a job maybe your mom can give you some face about having your gf. Show some respect to the women in your life. Get a job and earn a lot. You will make your mom happy and at the same time you can have a relationship as well. Ask yourself have you been living off your gf of 10 years as well?? Then do something to make up for it.
Think about it.
2007-03-22 10:28:29 · answer #2 · answered by shida2606 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have booted you to the curb 10 years ago if you are not working and living at home with mom.
Do you think the big paying jobs are going to come knocking on your door to hire you???
What planet are you from? It is time to get a life, a backbone and some ba**s.
Listening to your mother dictate to you who should b in your life is a joke. She is treating you like a child because you are not a man... hey did you ever think about it.
How can anyone respect you if you don't respect yourself.
I have got to give kudos to this girl who obviously you are stringing along, she has put up with your not committed and immature behaviour.
She deserves so much better than that.
I would be honest with her and tell her you are an immature irresponsible guy who listens to his mother, doesn't work and wants to have free rent.
You won't even see her back, as she hits the highway for a real man./
You are a real disappointment to all the men out here.
2007-03-22 10:22:43 · answer #3 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely let her down easy..
10 years is a long time!
2007-03-22 10:18:51 · answer #4 · answered by Samantha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋