well thers's this guy at my school and he wants to be better than me, we both 15 and he's kinda like trying to hard. i mean if he likes me he should actually tell me. now when i was standing with him he browt his gf along (i didnt know he had one but ok!) and they just started kissing, i felt so jealous!! i dont even like him(maybe i do!!) Why is he doing this????
well answers will be greatly Appreciated
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2007-03-22 03:12:10 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by the way i told him that i had a crush on his cousin....
2007-03-22 03:25:36 · update #1
lol we always seem to want what we cant have... and like you said you probably dont like him but the fact that he has a g/f, makes you want him. then if he didnt, you probably wouldnt want him anymore.. and as for him kissing her in front you, 1 of 2 things.. either 1) he really likes his g/f and your readin to much into it cuz he hasnt exactly said that he likes you or 2) he was tryin to make you jealous (which seemed to work)good luck!
2007-03-22 03:22:42 · answer #1 · answered by sweet_cotton_candy_gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and him feel competitive towards one another and this is normal when in school. I think you read his feelings wrong by thinking he likes you. He kissed his girlfriend because he wanted to, no other reason. To put it bluntly, you are just his classmate, nothing more, so he owes you no explanation for kissing his girlfriend. If he likes you he will let you know, if not, then stop misreading his feelings, as this has caused you to be confused about something that isn't even there.
2007-03-22 10:24:23 · answer #2 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure what it is you are trying to get an answer for. If he has a girlfriend and is kissing in front of you, then apparently the thing to do would be to think about other guys. You aren't looking to be the "other woman" are you? You surely deserve someone more respectful of you and his girlfriend don't you think? I hope it helps.
2007-03-22 10:16:57 · answer #3 · answered by TAMAJ13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing to know... Men are pigs.
It's natural for a man to create a competition between admirers. It's really about making themselves feel desired. The best way to deal with it is show that you don't care. (the old 'hard to get' game)
Keep in mind, If he breaks up with her to date you, or cheats on her with you, then you'll have a problem trusting him not to do the same to you in the future.
You're young, don't get too wrapped up in anyone who's not going to treat you like a goddess, it's just a waste of your time and emotion.
2007-03-22 10:20:36 · answer #4 · answered by Frank N Furter 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ouch.
If you feel jealous, don't kid yourself.
You LIKE this guy.
Well if he was genuinely kissing his gf im sorry but its quite hard to do anything.
Otherwise it would also mean he LIKES you because he would have only staged the act to get your attention.
Hang out with him and see how things go...
Gd luck...
2007-03-22 10:16:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
browt???? Here's a thought! Maybe you should do some English homework instead of worrying about boys. The word you were looking for is: brought.
2007-03-22 10:20:37 · answer #6 · answered by Tellus A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be confused as this guy is trying to make u jealous n in case he has any feelings for u ,he will show them if u ignore him for sometime .otherwise he is just making u feel bad that's all.
2007-03-22 10:19:35 · answer #7 · answered by babbu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are scandelous assholes.
your only jealous because you want him to like you even if you dont like him becuase it feels good when someone likes you.. so you were dissapointed about him having a girl friend.
2007-03-22 10:18:26 · answer #8 · answered by iCantAidYou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he 's good guy he's not kissing his gf to make you jealous.
2007-03-22 10:15:52 · answer #9 · answered by moulin.rouge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is playing games with you. Maybe he likes you and maybe he doesn't, but if he has a girlfriend, then you want to stay well away.
2007-03-22 10:14:53 · answer #10 · answered by louloubelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋