I recently found out that he was online with a woman that lives in SC and was telling her how much he wanted to spend a week with her, and they both have a web cam, I am sure you can imagine what happened next....He says he is happy with me and that he doesn't want anyone else, he's just bored. Currently unemployed due to medical reasons, so why does he do it when he knows it hurts me so bad?
2007-03-22 03:11:56 · 10 answers · asked by karakalkel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't care what this guy says. You're not enough for him. Boredom is not an excuse for using a webcam to "talk" to another woman. Its ridiculous. If he was that bored, he would sit around and watch TV all day or something productive. He is doing this to you because he wants to and he probably knows that you'll believe any excuse he tells you. Why stay with him? He is telling another woman he wants to be with her. Get rid of him before he spends that week with her or things go further.
2007-03-22 03:16:25 · answer #1 · answered by First Lady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him! A little flirting sometimes is natural, but wanting to spend a week with a woman and having cyber sex, with or without the web cam, is unacceptable. "Bored" isn't an excuse you should take. When I get bored I read a book, watch a movie or something. Put it on the line for him...either it stops or you go, and him, his online friend and his hand can have all the fun they want.
2007-03-22 10:31:14 · answer #2 · answered by misguidedrose18 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are really uncomfortable with you boyfriend talking to other girls online and telling them things that he would tell you then try talking to your boyfriend and let him know that you don't appreciate this, and that if he is so bored then why don't you and him think of ways to spice up your relationship so it won't become boring. I don't think he does it unintentionally, and if he does then he does not know it which would be a good time for you to tell him so, he won't know that is how you feel unless you and him sit and talk about your feelings to each other. Then you can figure out how to patch things up and make the relationship better but it will take sometime.
2007-03-22 10:25:10 · answer #3 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should keep your eyes wide open with him. try not to be blind. if that was my man i would threaten the relationship because that is completely unacceptable. how is he going to be treating someone else the same as you. you should be the only one he talks to like that. and how are you going to trust him now? you leave for work and what is he doing at home? hopefully he's alone all of the time!
i'm not trying to be mean or even rude. i'm just trying to tell you to watch out for yourself because if he does worse you will be the only one that is really hurt.
2007-03-22 10:18:33 · answer #4 · answered by destiney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm sry but if he loved u he wouldnt b talkin w.some other woman and tellin her "how much"he would want to spend "a week"with her..
oh hun and when he says he is just bored..its more like an excuse for u not to argue with him about this other girl.
2007-03-22 10:16:52 · answer #5 · answered by Just_Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I give up, what were they doing with the web cam
2007-03-22 10:16:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. He's cheating on you. He is self centered. This woman is an ego boost for him. Go find a better man.
2007-03-22 10:19:46 · answer #7 · answered by megan261980 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is just bored and likes talkin to people but maybe talk to him and ask if he could stop talking like he does to women. let him know how you feel about it
2007-03-22 10:16:53 · answer #8 · answered by nightmares5031 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes a cybor dog. do something to let him know you feel disrespected by this.if he dont care dump him. respect is of utmost importance.
2007-03-22 10:17:27 · answer #9 · answered by kelli c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for a thrill girl. some guys we like the 'chase' bit of flirting... on the other hand, he might be into cyber sex...
2007-03-22 10:16:17 · answer #10 · answered by oloclock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋