SO i heard someone say that this girl that keeps getting guys that just want to be friends is cuz she is so easy to talk to that they just put her right into a "friends" group instead of girlfriend material... This has happened to me before that guys have said the just want to be friends but admit they like me...why is this? I'm kinda that good girl/ girl nextdoor look, do i need to play hard to get instead of friendly happy go luck???
2007-03-22 03:10:37 · 9 answers · asked by forget_me_not 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"do i need to play hard to get instead of friendly happy go luck???"
Absolutely not. Be yourself. You want someone to love you for who you are. Don't sacrifice your identity just to gain a relationship that will never work.
There is someone out there for everyone and you are no exception.
The problem with most relationships is that people never become friends they go straight into being lovers and it never works out. Being friends is the most important part of any serious relationship. Things should start out like that and then get more serious if the chemistry is right. If it's not right..don't worry. There are lots of fish in the sea. In the mean time..it sounds like you can be a great friend. Good things come to those who wait and are faithful to who they are. Keep it real and something real will surface. Don't fret.
2007-03-22 03:17:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you dont need to do anything. You are just a people person. I have that ability too, it makes my husband mad. lol Anyways for the ones you are interested in more than friends just flirt with them more than you usually would. Sometimes guys like to be persued. By doing it this way you will know if they are interested by how they respond to your flirting. If they dont respond of flirt back then nothing is lost, or left to be imbarrased about. Hope this helps. Good luck! You go girl!
2007-03-22 03:16:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys are just looking for girls to be friends with or maybe their just not wanting to get in a relationship at this point in time. be yourself you'll find someone who likes you for you.
2007-03-22 03:14:51 · answer #3 · answered by jack 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should, playing hard to get works sometimes, people like a challenge, its much more fun to win a heart then just have it handed to you. Teasing and ignoring drive em wild.
2007-03-22 03:14:40 · answer #4 · answered by Youll See 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to date one of your just friends guys then tell them. MOst of my friends are just friends to me but some of them like me. Its a little weird but it dosent change anything.
2007-03-22 03:16:33 · answer #5 · answered by Wouldn't you like to know? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of in the event that they given of undertaking why no longer..the two considered one of them is conscious one yet another and the only concern for them to be extra well-off is he ingredient of bein in love or fallin in love.its achieveable.ive quite be wiht a man or woman who i understand and so hte different wya around.
2016-12-15 06:16:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, just being yourself. U'll meet someone one day who'll want to be both lovers and friends.
2007-03-22 03:13:33 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Nana♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya old dayz... its nice to be 16. coz when u r over 18 ,u will love to hear this more often.
2007-03-22 03:14:19 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relationships are work, what do you want out of relationships?
2007-03-22 03:14:30 · answer #9 · answered by No More Abuse 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋