Isn`t it weird when you realize a person you haven`t seen or talked to for over two months is constantly in your head?
What`s more, I have never had anything with him, I wanted to at some point, but I haven`t and now I don`t want to anymore.
2007-03-22 03:09:36 · 14 answers · asked by Lanalee W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
fritzie, don`t say that, that what he does for a living....it would just make things worse....
2007-03-22 03:17:29 · update #1
I have that same issue. What I do is whenever I think about him, I try and shift my brain to think about something I can control. Like school, pormotion, paying bills and debt. I think of stuff that will make me better in the long run and that I'm sure of. Just because I think of him doesn't mean he thinks of me and that's something I can't control. But, what I can control is what I focus on. Then before I know it, he's outta my head, then I go head first into the plans I just made for myself that are within my control.
2007-03-22 03:18:14 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Nana♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a really difficult question but the solution i s only in ur head u r the only one who can persuade u to change and get over him its reaaly hard firstly u have to admit 2 urself that u were in love with him n thats not sth bad and then u have to discuss with urself an just push the button and then u will realize that u r thinking him less and life goes on...good luck!!!
2007-03-22 03:21:29 · answer #2 · answered by Tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have that same problem right now, i try to forget about him by keeping busy and thinking of other things, like going on here and answering questions. its not easy trying to get someone out of your head. just keep busy, and when he pops up think of something else.
2007-03-22 03:13:06 · answer #3 · answered by Youll See 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi
well.this is the way that our brain and memory act!
but u can do some thing to make it less.for example:
find some one new
make yourself more busy by work or sport or study
try to spend more time with your friends
and etc
2007-03-22 03:19:54 · answer #4 · answered by mehryar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try doing something to take your mind off of him and move on there's so much fishies in the sea just waitn to meet you!
good luck
danzz <33
2007-03-22 03:14:29 · answer #5 · answered by Niela-Tequila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Booze ususally works well.
2007-03-22 03:12:22 · answer #6 · answered by Mr Mojo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start thinking about someone else. Find someone else to hold your attention.
2007-03-22 03:12:13 · answer #7 · answered by yodadoe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey make sure what you want from your life. help for yourself in abetter way.
2007-03-22 03:17:28 · answer #8 · answered by Dev1407 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
concentrate in something, Watch a movie, go jogging, etc...
2007-03-22 03:12:41 · answer #9 · answered by oloclock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start thinking of someone else.
btw Im here hello ;)
2007-03-22 03:12:06 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋