I guy was interested in me for about 3 months.. he called me day after meeting, asked me out on a date the next day,etc.. excpet at that time, i was in a very bad place. i mean, the first date i was saying "i never want to get married" and all that dumb stuff.. he kept calling though.. and i kept that wall up. finally he said he's tired of my crap.. i marinated on it for about a week then i tried a few emails and texts explaining i was going through alot, but no response. i realize now just how much i really liked him and treated him that way bc i was scared to fall in love with him and get hurt.. we have a mutual friend(guy) that's going to try to help me out by talking to him a little first, then setting up for us to meet up.. question is, since he won't even talk to me, does that mean he must've really liked me and i really hurt him? if so, i feel so bad on both levels.. hurting someone and losing someone really interested in me..
2007-03-22 03:05:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i really think he was the one and i feel so stupid.. however i honestly couldn't control how messed up i was at that time.. i'm so sad right now bc i know he was sincerly interestedi in me...
2007-03-22 03:10:31 · update #1
what do you want out of this relationship?
2007-03-22 03:09:19 · answer #1 · answered by No More Abuse 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he really did like you. I don't think that he wanted to get married at that precise moment. He just basically wanted to get to know you seeing as it was both of yours' first date. I understand that you were in a bad place at that moment, but why then did you go out on a date. Why not wait? And if you really did like him, why then put up that wall? I've done that before and believe me, it did not end well. Yes it does take time. And I'm glad that you realized that now. But is it too late? If he still likes you I'm sure it won't be and he'll speak to you.
2007-03-22 10:21:18 · answer #2 · answered by BooBee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Lela. You have to decide what you want out of this relationship. And no guy wants a bummer of a first date. I'm surprised that he called back at all. But, like you said, he must have had some interest in you. Don't give up trying. Good idea that your mutual friend is willing to help. Best wishes!
2007-03-22 10:16:10 · answer #3 · answered by e3456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure that you really like this guy or did you just like the attention?
2007-03-22 10:09:36 · answer #4 · answered by ~Happy~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better luck next time.
Learn from your mistakes
2007-03-22 10:09:29 · answer #5 · answered by mikey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen, y dont u directly go and meet him, apologize and explain from wat u were going thru!
tell him, dat u luv him a lot and ignored him, bcuz u were scared to fall in luv wid him, iam sure he'll understand.
don't relie on a 3rd partie!
2007-03-22 10:13:21 · answer #6 · answered by tia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should really try talking to him and work things out
2007-03-22 10:09:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋