who say unkind things or who look at you inferior or something
2007-03-22 03:04:34 · 8 answers · asked by denny 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
dont let other people get to you that way.mean people usually come across as confident but really feel inferior themselves inside and they enjoy tring to make other people unhappy.i used to let people like that bother me, but not anymore, theyre not worth wasting your thoughts on.
2007-03-22 12:32:14 · answer #1 · answered by Ramona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a good question! I have had the same issue before, and there are a few things I did to help. I wrote out 10 things that I am greatful for, example: I am greatful for my struggles, I am greatful for my health, I am greatful for my friends..... every time I get down I look at this list and it brings me back up. also, there is a good quote that I like to read that helps me, it is:
"You Gain Strength, Experience and confidence by every experience where you really stop to look fear in the face. You must do the thing you cannot do" - Eleanor Roosevelt
I also found that by speaking my mind and what was really on it, allowed me to free myself from the insecurity's of others, tell these people what you think, but be smart about it... use tact when talking to them.
If all else fails, and they are just a negative influence in your life, totally get away from the bad energy. Bad energy, even if it comes from some one else, can effect you and your every day life.
Karma is real, and it will find the negative, and it will return the favor.
be good, and good luck!
2007-03-22 10:29:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to love yourself before others can love you. Sounds corny but its true. Wish i could take my own advice sometimes. Don't know why we get so bothered about what other people think of us
2007-03-22 10:11:44 · answer #3 · answered by kit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them. If they are trying to get you down it's probably because they're jealous. They feel better about themselves by putting others down. Don't give him/her the satisfaction of a reaction when they don't deserve it.
2007-03-22 10:08:34 · answer #4 · answered by Eisbär 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the only person who gets me down is gordon brownpants.anyone else is ignored.
2007-03-22 10:23:53 · answer #5 · answered by earl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about the good things in live
2007-03-22 10:09:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just shrug it off and move on :)
They are no better than you are. We are all human.
2007-03-22 10:20:00 · answer #7 · answered by hello 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
protect your inner joy and rise above it.
2007-03-22 15:47:14 · answer #8 · answered by RAINBOW 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋