of my grandaugter and had to give up work although doing a degree but a bloke with a posh job wants to meet me tommorrow and he might be disappointed, i wish i could feel better about who i am sometimes cos people get me down easily
2007-03-22 03:03:35 · 10 answers · asked by denny 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
i know how you feel. im always down about my weight and my life style.
if you ever want to talk about things feel free to email me at hannah_clarke32@hotmail.co.uk, only if for advice or for me to make you feel batter. i am good with talking to people who feel down
2007-03-22 03:20:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My mother in law looks after my little girl while I work, she smokes and drinks (although shes only a little overweight) and she claims benefits - has done for 18 years, and she met a really nice guy on the internet who works real high up in the Government and they got along like a house on fire. It all fizzled out though cos SHE decided she wanted someone more down to earth.
2007-03-22 10:42:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy you're meeting with can't see the real you (the one with the potential to do a good job), then he's not worth working for. As for you, don't worry about what everyone else thinks, worry about what YOU think about yourself. Self-esteem makes a huge difference to how you present yourself.
2007-03-22 10:08:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good grooming, clean pressed clothing is always in good taste, smile, do some deep breathing, start a mantra to yourself, I think I can, I think I can. Our expectations get us into trouble, before we walk into the door. Stop projecting. Think positively. Good luck:)
2007-03-22 10:11:32 · answer #4 · answered by Sandy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need a friend someone to encourage you to stop smoking, to encourage you to eat healthier and to excercise someone who can go for walks with you. there are tons of people who feel the same way you do and they are looking for someone to do the same for them you could be an encouragement to one another. you can't change yourself overnight but you can wear something nice, clean, pressed well fitting, fix your hair nice don't act like you don't think you are good enough for him -be confident. hey you sound like bridgette jones except for the grand daughter thing. watch that- it might lift you up. good luck!
2007-03-22 10:45:10 · answer #5 · answered by carly sue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i aint going to give you sympathy for being a smoker or being fat, i was a smoker and i was and am still a little fat, but...i gave up smoking to feel better and i am starting to go gym to feel better.
if you wanna feel better get off your bum and do stufff for yourself instead of trying to play the sympathy vote toward us on here!
2007-03-22 10:23:46 · answer #6 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
explain your situation as to why you let yourself go. HE WILL LAUGH IN YOUR FACE.DON'T blame your grand daughter for you being a fat lazy cow you know thats just a bald face lie.why not try for once in your bloody life to take responsibilty for your own actions was your granddaughter feeding you and buying you fags i think not get real lady madonna
2007-03-22 10:12:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
if you are fat and smoking i suggest your not smoking enough.the only fat obese people i see are none smokers who die from over indulgent eating.think ill stick to smoking.at least i will fit in the coffin.
2007-03-22 10:29:22 · answer #8 · answered by earl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What are you talking about? You are fat. You smoke. You take care of your granddaughter. You are going on a date and you wish you weren't fat?
So stop eating so much, quit the stupid fags and start exercising.
2007-03-22 10:07:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
He probably thinks you are easy
2007-03-22 10:06:17 · answer #10 · answered by Barry Von Leotard III 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋