Friends...I really fear his reaction when i tell him i was nude in front of another guy before him...
Please how do i do?
2007-03-22 02:53:14 · 14 answers · asked by Kathelyn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That`s my story:
Friends I`m in a very embarassing situation and your advice would be most welcome....
I`m shy and very afraid to be nude in front of my guy (my future husband)...I just cannot.. I`m more afraid than shy....(I think sometimes it may be if he will like my body and stuff like that)Sometimes i feel so helpless that i may burst into tears....He showed me himself nude but when he asks to see me naked i always post it to later and he is dissapointed....I really want to please him...
Many years ago i went nude in front of my ex without shyness and fear but we got separated and he is now married.... And Each time when i begin to undress infront of my boyfriend ,I think of my ex....like a flashback of me going nude infront of my ex (married) which makes me feel very bad..
Please, Please, Please Help me out I love him..but i just cannot be nude infront of him... Genuine answers please
2007-03-22 02:58:03 · update #1
It sounds like you may have had a traumatic experience that you relate to your nudity. You need to re-shape your mental reactions to nudity to associate it more with pleasurable non-sexual situations. Try going to a nudist resort or clothing optional beach and experience nudity as an enjoyable feel-good situation.
The references below will give you a good introduction to nudist life and another woman's perspective on the situation that may help you adapt.
2007-03-22 05:03:19 · answer #1 · answered by USAnudist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him about being nude in front of another guy right now. That is not important. What is important is getting over you feel of being nude in front of this guy.
2007-03-22 02:59:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
k first of all stop freaking out and breath,,,,,ahhhh better? k i don't know what to tell you cuz i don't knwo if maybe you are just self contious abuot your body or what but my sis has been married for a while and STILL doesn't like to even be in her underwear around her husband,,,so your not hte only one. try to forget about this whole thing with your ex though
2007-03-22 02:58:28 · answer #3 · answered by forget_me_not 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to tell him that. Would you like him to tell you how many he was nude in front of before you.....
2007-03-22 02:56:36 · answer #4 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing's first, how long have you and your current boyfriend been together?
If you explain yourself to your boyfriend, he should understand. && if he's not understanding and pressures you to show yourself to him, then he doesn't have respect for you.
Don't show him if you aren't comfortable yet.
I wish you the best of luck.
2007-03-22 03:03:16 · answer #5 · answered by Kiri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men will be happy to hear you've gone naked before. It means you'll be willing to do it again...
2007-03-22 02:57:05 · answer #6 · answered by Corrupted_Virtue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness.Do you really think he does not already take that for granted?
If you had sex with your ex it is obvious that he saw you nude.
How old are you?
2007-03-22 02:56:33 · answer #7 · answered by mikey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whoopie! Tell him to get over it...life goes on!
2007-03-22 02:55:59 · answer #8 · answered by ?born2lose? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You NEVER tell a mate anything of your past concerning other men!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-22 02:56:09 · answer #9 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it...
Happens to almost Everyone...
Besides that, why tell him ???
2007-03-22 02:58:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋