if i dont have a guy to flirt with im always really bored, i think its cos im not over my x. When i got a guy on the go i dont think think about his as much as it takes my mind off it but when i get bored of them or whateva is goin on with them ends i get really fed up and go looking for another to stop me from getting so bored! is this normal?or is it a product of depression?
2007-03-22 02:49:48 · 19 answers · asked by me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depression and upbringing. You don't "need" any body. It is nice to have someone around but it isn't a life saver.
2007-03-22 02:52:44 · answer #1 · answered by Karrien Sim Peters 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm... I do the same thing. It's weird. I always think, "I'm gonna be single! I'm gonna have fun!" but then I drop everything for a relationship. I do rebound after rebound to cover the hurt of previous relationships. I can be an insecure person and I take meds for depression so I think that's why I have done that. I don't think I've been much help, Good Luck!
2007-03-22 09:57:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably still getting over him. Yes a new man does tend to get your mind over the ex. My ex was on my mind 24/7 all the time When I got a new one he left my mind some. In ways he still is there but he is almost gone in lots of ways. My ex was my first with many things which is why the bond is so strong. Give it some time. You will get over him one day. Especially when the man of your life comes into yuor life like mine did.
Good luck.
2007-03-22 09:58:27 · answer #3 · answered by moo shell 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a product of you not being happy with yourself...You depend on men to not feel bored...You need to be single for a while and find yourself...look for the reason or reasons of why you need this attention all the time...
2007-03-22 09:53:08 · answer #4 · answered by Alejandra2008 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, it is normal. it could be because you are not yet over your ex-boyfriend, or because you just have not found the guy you need yet. it seems like you need someone who is spontaneous and witty, someone to keep you guessing at every turn. So cheer up kido, you will find him when the time is right. We all go through this at one point or another, you are normal as can be!
2007-03-22 09:54:20 · answer #5 · answered by Linka 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a life. You spend too much time focusing on other people when you should be focusing on yourself. Get a hobby or career or even go back to school. When the right guy comes along you will know it.
2007-03-22 09:54:17 · answer #6 · answered by bradthepilot 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's a product of insecurity you have a need for a man around i too had the same problem once but now i've been married for 13 years boy do i wish now i would have took a break from men lol!
2007-03-22 09:53:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means you are immaute..you need to learn to like and love yourself..why doi you think you need a man or anyone to make you happy or ok.????? You have to be alone and get to a point where you can be ok in every area of your life.........
2007-03-22 09:53:57 · answer #8 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A product of insecurity.
2007-03-22 09:52:25 · answer #9 · answered by mikey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like me too!!!1
2007-03-22 09:53:20 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋