a good lover and why?
2007-03-22 02:45:51 · 11 answers · asked by MJ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok Married 24 yrs same Man.. I have experienced things with him and he has taught me :as well, as me teaching him things.. I consider myself a good ,naughty lover,faithful lover.. In reading questions it seems like alot of people struggle with this the art of making love and for some sex... just curious who is doing and doing it and doing it with knowledge,and the the know how to make your lover want and need it from you.....
2007-03-22 03:08:43 · update #1
As to making sex: A decent man will bring his partner to climax at least once - maybe three times, if he is showing off - before he gets his. A decent woman will make him want to do that, by little moans of encouragement and some plain words, telling him what she does and doesn't like. Then she'll ask him what he likes and do her best to do it for him.
As to making love: Get married. Stick with each other in sickness and in health, through bad times and good. Make your partner's happiness your major goal in life. Make him/her feel good about themselves. Be quick to forgive and remember the triumphs a long time. Present a united front to the kids. Discuss your finances openly.
2007-03-22 02:58:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anne Jovie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one here is really going to be able to teach you by answering this question it takes time and practice, fortunately for you, you're not a guy as guys tend to do most of the work. Go to a bookstore and look at one of the sex books, look at the positions read the directions. You'll learn with experience, what you like, how you like to move, what positions are your favorites, if you like it soft or hard. Just start by familiarizing yourself with a book, and rely on experience for the rest
2007-03-22 02:52:05 · answer #2 · answered by joe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A good lover and I mean a really good lover is one who puts his/her partners needs over their own. This is especially true for men because women unlike men need a lot more stimulation to achieve what men could achieve in a few seconds if we wanted to.
2007-03-22 02:51:33 · answer #3 · answered by sinkablehail1978 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you know the mechanics, then you pretty much know everything. The millions of articles on "How to have better sex" are all junk; written to sell magazines.
Respect for your partner and love are all that's needed to have a fulfilling relationship.
2007-03-22 02:52:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about anything, these kinds of things just comes within, there isnt any knowledge at all. its just all about feelings. a good lover, of course, someone who respects and understands your need.
2007-03-22 03:02:55 · answer #5 · answered by ~desa~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think every one thinks this at some point in life if your not married don't worry about it wait tillyou find the right person and then you learn together it is worth the wait
2007-03-22 02:52:46 · answer #6 · answered by country-girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with the flow and do what feels good. It is no big deal.
2007-03-22 02:48:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let your feelings flow and take it from there. There is no right or wrong way.
2007-03-22 02:56:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it! its great.
dont worry about it just do it.
2007-03-22 02:49:51 · answer #9 · answered by fnqbigboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nature...
and know what you are doing by practice... i practice a lot...
2007-03-22 02:49:46 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope - returned 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋