Girl I met online?

Question

I want some answers to this this time

I met this girl online and we have been talking for almost 1.5 months now. I really like her. The problem is that we set up a date a couple times but she had to cancel for really good reasons, she had to go out of state for personal reasons. She has been now out of state since then (been 3 weeks) and we still talk alot on phone and online. She also flirts a little too much. Saying things like she wants to kiss me, how she wants me as a bf, etc. I am wondering if she is maybe just screwing around with my mind or if she is just very open like that? anyone have this happen to you? I know the answer is to meet her but it seems like she is taking forever to come back.

I have seen many pics of her and I know her myspace. She seems real. She only canceled second one for being outta state, first one she had a good reason. I have asked when she is coming back and didn't get a straight answer. Should I keep pushing this? I don't wanna sound desperate

I don't think she likes me only as a friend. I believe her reason for being outta state since from her myspace you can tell from her other friend posts that her story is real. She constantly posts stuff on my myspace and she calls me to just say good night.

Answer 1

Just ask her if she would liket o meet up sometime to grab lunch or dinner.
If she keeps playing around, then forget her. If not, go for it.

Life is too short to be left wondering about things and/or wasting your time. :)

Answer 2

Sounds fishy to me. This girl may not look like her pics on Myspace. She may not be the age she says she is, etc....
I am sure she is real, but you need to get out and find someone that you can visit with and meet with and have a real date with.
How far away does she live? It appears she may be scared of you as well. I tell my daughter that I would be very scared for her to meet a guy off the internet. There are some crazy people out there.

Answer 3

I would definitely put this on on the rear burner on simmer
she has left the state and is iffy,
Try this. Let her call you. go on the defensive, don't you call her. If she doesn't call you then there's your answer.
If she does and wonders why you don't call as often then just put it up front, "I was thinking you were interested but it seems it's all talk"
In a nice way say out up or pack up..... there's a lot of other online people looking....Good luck..

Answer 4

Personally i have never had the desire to meet anyone on line, however, many do. I think she is playing with you to make herself feel more wanted. Next time you speak with her just flat out ask her if she is interested or not, and let her know you don't like playing childish games. And i wouldn't keep hanging on to someone whom i never meet, so i would just say now or never, let her know you have a life and you don't waste your time on a no show.

Answer 5

If I were you, dont ask her to meet again. See if she makes the first attempt on her own. She may be real as can be but she can also be playing around. If I were that nuts about you I would have already have met you, more than once in ''real time''.

Answer 6

ahh okay
cyberdates
i believe and sincerely hope that she's serious =]
if her myspace had many comments from her friends that proove she was really out of the state, i say she's real
tell her straight that you have feelings for her and ask for a step further
wait for her reply, either on phone or emails
arrange another date, and i suppose she won't be busy x)

Answer 7

I'd say just take it slow. i mean you guys have only been talking for 1.5 months. this really isn't that long. you guys still have a lot of getting to know eachother.
If you keep pushing it you might end up pushing her away. so just let her resolve whatever she has to and then talk to her about meeting up when she returns.

Answer 8

I think that your shouldnt get your hopes up
maybe she is telling u the truth
but mostly when you meet girls online
it cause they just want to mess around with you to have fun.
dont fall for that look for a girl somewhere else that you meet in person. there is alot of worth it girls outhere.

Answer 9

Have you seen pictures of her? Is she good looking? Just wait a little longer to meet her and give her sometime..If after sometime she still has excuses then move on...

Answer 10

well it sems to me like she is a hoe and talks to alot of guys like tyaht cause the same exact thing happend to me (except prizen) and he was just tring to have sex so i would wait a little longer and you can find out more and email me if you want and i can tell you more about what to do