2007-03-22 02:17:21 · 17 answers · asked by hmm?. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok, this other guy that likes me,
he's like, different from people i'm hangin out with..i mean he's really weird..
and i'm afraid that if i do give him a chance, other people would see me as 'different' as him.
2007-03-22 02:24:09 · update #1
NO! Never date anyone that you're not absolutely infatuated with! You will regret it. And don't think that you're doing him a favor by "giving him a chance". You will only hurt him and yourself if he decides that he wants more from the relationship and you don't. Remember the guy that you like? Ask him out! Don't waste your time going out with someone that you don't really like...you will regret it and so will he! But if you do like him, but are just afraid to give him a chance (for some bizare reason), go ahead....only if you really do like this guy though! Otherwise it is just cruel and selfish!
2007-03-22 02:23:07 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated a guy I did not like and after giving him a chance I ended up marring him so it goes to show you, you never know. I would go for it. What do you have to loose by seeing what's out there.
2007-03-22 02:22:24 · answer #2 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if the guy tou like likes you back than date him but if the guy dosent like you than you should give the other guy a chance and dont date both cause it will tun out bad and you will probably never get a good guy because thy will think u are a ***** and no one will like u
2007-03-22 02:23:01 · answer #3 · answered by liz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in a similar situation..I think you should be friends with both of them..to see who's best for you..but no,don't tell him you're giving him a chance because then he won't stop trying to be with you..you should let things be free..Let both of them show you their character and see with who you match better!!
2007-03-22 02:24:50 · answer #4 · answered by Elli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont give a chance
your just going to hurt the guys feelings
just wait for the other guy
2007-03-22 02:21:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, are you desperate or something? Don't give someone a chance if you are not interested. That gives false hope.
2007-03-22 02:22:33 · answer #6 · answered by A c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On what basis do you not like him?
If its looks...you should give him a chance then see who is right for you.
2007-03-22 02:20:13 · answer #7 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't lead this guy on. You shouldn't try to be with someone you look down on. If you like someone else be honest and I am sure everyone involved will be happier
2007-03-22 02:42:20 · answer #8 · answered by cutie322434 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
babe. seems to me u don't know what you really want. i know what i want in a man and if i see it, bang! i go for it and thats after i've made sure he also likes me and is willing to make it work. so all that talk about not knowing what people will think of you is weird on its own. IF YOU DON'T FANCY HIM, TURN TAIL AND BEAT IT!
2007-03-22 02:38:08 · answer #9 · answered by kikky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the guy you like dont know that you like him or if he dont like you then yes give the guy that does like you a chance
2007-03-22 02:20:10 · answer #10 · answered by luvagrrl14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋