The girl that I am dating now has expressed some pain when we are together...what should I do? What would you do with a guy that is too BIG?
2007-03-22 02:16:29 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, their are a few men in the world that have been given more than the average female can handle. So simply be patient with your time, and use some KY-Jelly or some other lubricant. Pratice makes perfect. Lucky you............. God bless****
2007-03-22 02:26:27 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The vagina can stretch to the size of a baby's head - no guy is that big. She probably needs a little more warming up before penetration - try cunnilingus, or dirty movies. Sometimes, even a back massage can make the difference.
Of course, if you are talking about being too long, then this is a distinct possibility. The only solution is for you to keep yourself in check and don't push forwards quite as hard.
2007-03-22 02:21:19 · answer #2 · answered by Me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea the guy that i am with right now is BIG and the first time we did it OMG I thought i was going to die!!!! But he just took it really slowly andthen we done it again like an hour later and it was AMZAING!!! So just take it slow and dont worry about it try to get her not to be scared! it will be better if shes not so worried about it ya know!
2007-03-22 03:36:26 · answer #3 · answered by JessieRae07 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Use astroglide, KY or joy jelly. Maybe you should introduce some toys to help "loosen her up" so to speak (Gradually of course) Foreplay wouldn't hurt either. I've never met a man whose package was too big, but I've met a few who came with way too much baggage. One thing I know for certain...if you give a man an inch, he expects a foot, but if he gives you an inch, he calls it a foot. hee hee!
2007-03-22 02:26:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well i have never actually been with someone with an oversize penis but i have seen this male stripper private on my 18 bday his name was Mandingo and he own up to the name and i will say that i would pass, i can't imagine anything pleasurable being with someone like that there is well end-ought and straight up donkey dick and i don't want my ovaries to get poked while getting intimate with someone
2007-03-22 02:23:28 · answer #5 · answered by canielany 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have recently ran into this problem with a guy I started dating. Just slow down to start with, try to slowly enter all the way a few times before you actually start getting into the groove. She will get used to being with you in no time.
2007-03-22 02:26:28 · answer #6 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My current guy is almost 9 inches and thick..and it feels great....but he never just "goes for it".
Yeah foreplay is important...but when he first starting..he'll tease me a bit before actually delving all the way in...or he'll have me start out on top so i can control how much goes in how fast.
2007-03-22 02:57:42 · answer #7 · answered by Lioness 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, we slowly worked it and then it was the best I ever had. Be gentle and slow. Give lots of time for her body to adjust to your size and then work it slowly, very slowly! The first time won't be so good for her. But the next time(hopefully the very next day because you don't want her body to go back to it's original size) it will be earth shattering for her!
2007-03-22 02:21:10 · answer #8 · answered by lilmama 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes and it can hurt reeeeal bad like an hour afterwards. It hurts in the beginning then feels fine then it kills after.
2007-03-22 03:13:42 · answer #9 · answered by Sillysally24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More foreplay. The female apparatus is capable of delivering a baby. I doubt you're that big. So she just needs more time to loosen up.
2007-03-22 02:20:01 · answer #10 · answered by Gnomon 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋