I'm getting involved with someone and it seems things are moving pretty fast judging on normal standards. We've met each others parents and know a lot of deep stuff about each other and our pasts, and we've done some intimate things (both sex and otherwise). All of this within a few weeks, though we've actually known each other longer than that.
It feels like things are going so fast that I should be worried or scared away, but at the same time as all of those things happened, none of it was weird or uncomfortable.
I know all of this happening so fast isn't normal for most people, but I'm surprisingly not freaked out by this guy. It all seems okay. What should I think of this?
2007-03-22 02:16:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If there was any question about ages, we're both adults.
2007-03-22 02:17:16 · update #1
My girlfriend and I are (were) in exactly the same position. If it feels right, then carry on just as you are.
The sad fact is, a lot of people either have issues with being too close, too soon, or are simply not finding good partners. In the early weeks of our relationship, friends were telling us not to go too fast and not to get too involved in case things didn't work out. Those friends have since taken back anything negative they said!
The chances are you two are moving so quickly because you are right for each other. Don't be afraid of it, and take it from someone who knows - when it feels right, it is right!
Congratulations and good luck!
2007-03-22 02:21:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stress about it. I met a girl a few years ago. We were in the sack by the second date, and married within a year. Three years later, and we are still very happy, no problems at all. We discuss and debate often, but haven't even had a fight yet. I wouldn't make any snap decisions just yet, but there's no reason to think that it should be weird or uncomfortable - actually, I'd feel more worried if I did feel uncomfortable.
2007-03-22 02:27:00 · answer #2 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think u should be freaked out. When I met my bf our relationship progressed really fast but that's just how I knew that we're right for each other. If u enjoy this fast pace and if the feeling is mutual..u have nothing to worry about
2007-03-22 02:24:02 · answer #3 · answered by *VS* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing wrong with what you're feeling..
you're just surprised that "things are moving so fast"..
other than that, you don't feel weird about it, and you said that you're both adults..
if it feels right, it's right!..
2007-03-22 02:20:14 · answer #4 · answered by hmm?. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont let your preconceptions get in the way of your developing relationship ---- if it feels natural then its not too fast ---- its just right
2007-03-22 02:22:17 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone has thier own pace at how fast thier relationship goes...every body is different...Good Luck!!!
2007-03-22 02:20:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it feels right, i say go for it. sometimes you just know i guess. dont judge by other people's standards. create your own.
2007-03-22 02:20:22 · answer #7 · answered by LawDude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you doupt something in life...don't do it...it is GOD talking to you.....telling you no........
2007-03-22 02:18:51 · answer #8 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋