This is happening to me most of the time...Men are attracted to me in the begining, tell my friends that they are interested in me, but never have the courage to invite me out.
Why is that? Cuz I cannot explain it. I get out, have fun with my friends, but sometimes I would like to get out with men and get to know them better in order to have a real relationship.
Where do i go wrong?
2007-03-22 02:04:55 · 10 answers · asked by Mishaj 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you prolly belong to the "hot girl" population of women...yall are dying out....relationship wise...guys arent as dumb as yall think...more and more guys are starting to realize that average looking women who have great personalities are the best...as opposed to just continually looking at the outside...but enough rambling...u didnt do anything wrong...i guess it wouldnt hurt to be more personable (not saying u arent)...but some really goodlooking women usually have bad attitudes when they figure a guy isnt good enough for them...but like u say...u wanna get to kno them better....SHOW that when they approach u...it helps more than u think...hope this helps....its mostly bout personality nowadays...."hot girl w/out personality" is dying out...
2007-03-22 02:14:27 · answer #1 · answered by unpredictedmystery 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Natasha,
Nothing is wrong with you. I learned that sometimes you have to make yourself approachable. Perhaps they are shy, or do not want to take the risk of being turned down. With the modern trends of today, why don't YOU ask someone out that you think you might like to get to know better. Go somewhere that is not strictly date related, like a lunch date. Keep it light and have fun. I am not sure how old you are, but live life to its fullest and remember that you must be happy with yourself before you can make someone else happy. Just realize that if there is a person out there that you want to meet, and they do not ask you out, then it probably would not have been a good match anyway, and he just saved you a bunch of time trying to figure it out.
2007-03-22 09:15:00 · answer #2 · answered by A c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy that serious enough will finally ask you out. Don't bother with those ones who didn't even have a courage to invite you out. They are not that into you, and therefore they are not worth your time. Relax. There sure be someone come along. Relationship is at it's best when things happen naturally.
Good luck.
2007-03-22 09:12:03 · answer #3 · answered by Master M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You actually didn't go wrong anywhere. But if you want to have any of those boys as lover then perhaps you should approach them. It is general for men not to be able to tell girls that they love you. So try being friendly to them OK and give them opportunities to express their feelings.
2007-03-22 09:10:58 · answer #4 · answered by Chaste 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps they find you too attractive... and believe that you are "out of their league". So cannot muster up the courage to ask you out for fear of what could be an "obvious" rejection in their own minds
2007-03-22 09:10:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guys could be intimidated to go out with you, but if thats the case thats not your fault. if a guy approaches you and your interested in him, you could be flirty and ask him when is he going to take you out. that way you have a verbal contract and he has to get the job done.
2007-03-22 09:14:11 · answer #6 · answered by marion r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try asking them out if you think someone is interested in you....
2007-03-22 09:08:21 · answer #7 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying. Mr right will come along one day.
2007-03-22 09:09:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make the first move!
2007-03-29 19:44:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself
u will find why
2007-03-22 09:13:23 · answer #10 · answered by amirat7oby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋