I have been ragging on and on about this guy but I feel like he is pushing me away and its working. I feel like I deserve better and that I should move on but at the same time I have genuine feelings for him and I dont want to move on..
We totally compliment each other and Its really frustarting me coz he is my perfect match and finding somebody like that is really hard.
He was in a previous relationship like a while ago and he is totally using work as an excuse to keep me at bay like a defense mechanism or something like that(i know fo sure I'm not the rebound gal coz there someone there b4 me...lol).
It really hurts coz I get all this crazy ideas that mayb he isnt into me like I am to him; that I'm just a good lay to him.
At the same time he always says the nicest things to me and he is totally charming.
Im scared coz he is like the first guy ever since my ex 4yrs ago that I genuinly like and hope to have a serious relationship wit...
Am I being paranoid?
Thanx in adv
2007-03-22 02:00:20 · 7 answers · asked by ask n ye shall recieve 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hun, don't do yourself like this. Just go out and find someone for only you. You are special. And he should know that. And yes , you do deserve better. The longer you hang around, the more hurt you could be. Good luck and let us know how it turns out.
2007-03-22 02:08:19 · answer #1 · answered by Solar Ball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well im guessing it would all depend on how long you have been dating each other. I dont think he is pushing you away persay, you may be affraid of commitment. Its ok a lot of people are, unfortunately you will have to get over this isue or you may push everyone away. I hope this helps G'luck im sure things will work out right in the end!
2007-03-22 09:06:40 · answer #2 · answered by kal_el_kitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you: it's time to move on and find someone else. You admit "he is pushing me away". I think you are clinging to him because "he is the first guy ever since my ex 4yrs ago". Try to build up friendships rather than looking for Mr Right and you'll find he arrives in your life when you least expect it.
2007-03-22 09:07:41 · answer #3 · answered by Alex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not being paranoid, you are in denial. You are looking to be in a relationship just for the sake of it. Stop being scared, and just concentrate on other things. The right one will come along, who is worthy of you, and doesn't play games with charming you, and using your body.
2007-03-22 09:08:31 · answer #4 · answered by michelebaruch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Think that you should tell him how you feel and then talk to him about how he feels for you.. if you feel that he's pushing you away then ask him if he's stressed out because that could be the reason too. But didn't forget that guys be trippin over things that we think are stupid... so just ask him and tell him to be as honest as possible. cuz you don't want to be sticking around for no reason wasting time. the time that you could be looking for another!
2007-03-22 09:16:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl ima be real with you, you kinda are but your kinda not i would feel the same way, maybe your coming on to strong loosen up and act normal dont be all over him make him chase you never go after a guy a guy who really want you will go after you ok girl?? best of luck ma take care
2007-03-22 09:06:05 · answer #6 · answered by newyorican chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's stringing you along. Of course he's going to be nice and charming he wants to keep getting laid. It seems like you already no whats going on so just build up the courage to go ahead and walk away. You no you need to.
2007-03-22 09:07:38 · answer #7 · answered by GoodGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋