2007-03-22 01:44:34 · 11 answers · asked by Mary Jane 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Ok so I'v been with his dad for 4 years n we're been married for 3. He's 15 now and I have been trying to play the mother role with him. He even calls me mom. He started by telling me he has sex dreams but i thought that normal since he is hormonal n I tried to tell him it would pass. I'm pretty fit and only 29. He said he wanted to do it so that we could get it over with and put it behind us. I was outraged so he tried to act like he wasn't thinking properly because of pain killers. he obviously needs help but how do or do i tell his father?
2007-03-22 02:02:57 · update #1
i would say it depends on if she had a hand in raising him or not, if she is just dads new trophy wife then i see no real problem, but if she has been there since he was younger and played an actual mother role in his life, then there is a problem with him, though he may just think she's not my mother doesn't matter
2007-03-22 01:52:46 · answer #1 · answered by jaycee99999999 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose it's possible, but depending on how old the boy is and what his behavior is, you should either discourage it or ignore it.....if it's a harmless crush, then I wouldn't make a HUGE deal out of it.....it could be like some kids who get crushes on their teachers...OK,now that you added more details here is how I think you should handle it. WAIT and see if he says ANYTHING inappropriate again, and then sit him down and explain to him that there is NO WAY in this world that you would EVER do that with him, to you, he is a son like figure in your life, the last thing you feel for him is sexual attraction, so he'd better just drop it NOW. If he persists, then you might have to get the Dad involved or something else, because it does have the potential to be dangerous to you....if he can't take NO and he's stronger than you. Only you know that, trust your GUT, do not ignore it.
2007-03-22 01:51:48 · answer #2 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is definitely sick, and something is wrong with that boy that painkillers cannot treat. Tell him if he doesn't behave he will have to live with his Mom or his toothless Grandma. And also, don't encourage any more of that behaviour of his by dressing more stepmotherly. The father should know about this situation, so if it escalates further he knows HE came to you and not the other way around. He must talk to his son about it.
2007-03-22 06:34:11 · answer #3 · answered by Tammy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should tell his father coz u will get the worst end of the stick.explain 2 ur husband of what he's been doing and hopefuly u can all discuss it as a family.if u ignore the issue it will get worse,and if u really love ur husband,u should always tell him things and never keep secrets away from eachother,u will then drifft apart
2007-03-22 03:18:51 · answer #4 · answered by xxashtonxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your comfortable with having a conversation with your step son about this, then have a chat with him and explain to him how wrong this is and that you are in no way interested in this liasion. If he brings it up again, then discuss it with your husband. This needs to be nipped in the bud as soon as possible.
2007-03-22 02:31:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Family problem just waiting to happen. I hope he can control his attraction.
2007-03-22 01:48:41 · answer #6 · answered by Chloe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I saw that movie.
2007-03-22 01:49:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah sure, its a great idea.
Its more natural than say... oh I better not hey...
2007-03-22 01:48:44 · answer #8 · answered by fnqbigboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
creepy that is definatly off limits!
2007-03-22 01:47:53 · answer #9 · answered by Bekah F 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
bone her like ya own her and dont let dad catch ya,,,
2007-03-22 01:47:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋