I work with this girl. I started liking her, she seemed interested(clumsy around me, STEALING GLANCES, the whole EYE CONTACT GAME*, smiling at me) we started talking, became friends. I ask her out, didn't work..
Lately I been calling her, and since she’s been playing “hard to get” attitude with me, so I did the SAME. she only want s to talk about work related things, nothing flirtish* or personal. Doesn’t smile when we talk. and we try to ignore each other. and NOW IT’S KILLING ME. I thought I could ignore her, just be friends, but when she ignores me back. I can't take it.) it HURTS!
What did I do wrong? What can I do now? I liked her and she liked me back.
I was thinking maybe write her a letter and pour my heart into it?
THAKNS 4 UR ANS IN ADVANCE!
2007-03-22 01:25:14 · 6 answers · asked by S. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she was all fine, before i stared calling her. she gave me her number, so i thought she wanted me to call her.
I was thinking maybe apologize to her if i did something wrong? And tell her I just wanted to hang out with you as friends, not into serious relationship.
If you guys have any idea about how I should write her letter??Plz show me.
2007-03-22 01:26:31 · update #1
BUT IT DOSEN'T FEEL LIKE SHE FEELS THE SAME!!!
2007-03-22 01:30:27 · update #2
if i was u i'll go for it u'll never no she might feel da same way?
2007-03-22 01:29:05 · answer #1 · answered by amy_baby123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is too late to go backwards.
You maybe came on a little too strong.
Maybe she wanted just a friendship, now she is back paddling because you took it the wrong way.
She doesn't like you in a bf/ gf kind of way. it is not in the cards bud.
Unfortunately you have made her think you are after a relationship and she wants no part of it.
You need to back off, give her some space and in about a couple weeks, tell her you didn't mean to push so hard.
You know you can't be just friends cause you have all these feelings for her, so don't kid yourself. She feels your emotions bud, so knock it off.
You will probably only be work associates and acquaintances, you blew your chance if there ever was one.
You need to move on and pick your chin up off the ground. You will seem like a stalker kind to her, if you keep acting up around her, that is not good.
Wake up, smell the coffee, nothing is going to happen here.... let it go... or you are going to cause your self trouble and undue emotional breakdowns.....
2007-03-22 08:32:56 · answer #2 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe u could try a face to face honest conversation. Tell her all of this...and see what comes out from it....Communication is very important to resolve conflicts..don't be agressive or put too much pressure on her..just tell her how u feel abt this whole situation..
2007-03-22 08:42:21 · answer #3 · answered by Me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that she probably thinks ur cominhg on to strong and making urself come off as a little too desperate! girls lyk it when guys give little signs that they're interested but when u start giving too many signs too quickly...it gets a little desperate!!just pull her aside and ask if you guys could "talk"...explain to her that ur starting to have feelings for her and u werent exactly sure how to express those feeling and they just came out all wrong... ask if maybe u guys could start things over again... maybe u could even write her a poem!!! ...she'll come around!!!
2007-03-22 08:37:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she changed her mind about wanting you. it happens to we females at times. we can be attracted to a guy and give him the body language works when he pays us little attention and when we finally get it, loose interest. i knw this is not what you'll like to hear but its possibility.
2007-03-22 08:43:15 · answer #5 · answered by kikky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably met some new person she likes more. sorry but you'll meet someone better looking 2!
2007-03-22 08:31:50 · answer #6 · answered by k2cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋