This is happening to me most of the time...Men are attracted to me in the begining, tell my friends that they are interested in me, but never have the courage to invite me out.
Why is that? Cuz I cannot explain it. I get out, have fun with my friends, but sometimes I would like to get out with men and get to know them better in order to have a real relationship.
Where do i go wrong?
2007-03-22 01:22:34 · 28 answers · asked by Mishaj 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i look very well. i wouldn't have wanted to say it, sorry, but i see you're asking me about it.
2007-03-22 01:30:17 · update #1
That happens to me too. Guess if you are the traditional sort who prefers being pursued, you just have to be patient and Mr right surely has to turn up one day. That’s my approach. Or ask a close male friend for advice – one that you can trust.
2007-03-22 05:07:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do not know what you look like butr probably very nice and so when you are out blokes will look at you and think NO she's bound to have someone the lucky sod, be approachable say Hi and if you see someone you like go talk, its only a chat and you never know, Good Luck Girl in all you do PS I am a bloke but way to old for you
2007-03-25 19:21:54 · answer #2 · answered by decrepid1958 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure what you wear but try to change it up unless you already wear just jeans and a sweat shirt or top and not much makeup if any at all then a little prettying up a little at a time..maybe for special events and all...
looks can be a detractor or decieving but I doubt it's all that... if I knew you better i could tell you more bc i had a hottie as a neighbor and it was mostly the way her mom raised her (very selfish and self-centered and to use people )and her attitude about things..not that you're that, but it is one clue for some people if they have the same problems..
2007-03-30 00:09:30 · answer #3 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not having a go at you here - but maybe you intimidate men? Or perhaps your personality isnt up to scratch with your good looks?
Obviously you cant change how you look - not that you should want to disimprove your appearance - but maybe its just a case of making more of an effort to come across as approachable and chatty - that might put men at ease in your company a bit more?
xx
2007-03-22 08:34:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a very big issue, but for sure it is a very big complement.
Men get attracted to you, cos you might be good looking, very well behaved, professionally successful and emotionally balanced and fun to be with.
This is your asset as well as your liability, the man might feel the fear of rejection on the account of not being able to be competitive on all fronts or some of them.
your qualities attract them to you, but the magnitude of your personality might repell them due to the fear of being rejected.
is it only the men getting attracted to you, or you also get attracted sometimes in return? If ever you get attracted then you can ask your man to go out with and know him better.
This might not be the right forum, but I can dare to ask you out to know each otehr, not necessarily that we click, but sure can give it a try.
Regards
Vir
2007-03-22 08:30:46 · answer #5 · answered by Brave Heart 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i am a boy and i am in the same position,
we are waiting for the right time not in school
on the walk home not too early otherwise it is odd walking home with someone who rejected you and not in too big a crowd but here's an idea ask them out.
2007-03-29 16:30:15 · answer #6 · answered by niall p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are it's not you, it's just the fickle guys you attract and that is just unlucky. You have to be patience with this things. People expect relationships and finding significant others to be a fast process when it takes time and boy do I mean time.
2007-03-22 08:26:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most likely you intimidate them. either by your dress or your attitude. if you want one of these guys that is too scared to hit on you, try just going out in a tee and jeans, letting them know you are approachable and not scary. if you're not up for that, and you like being cream of the crop and feeling like it, you're gunna have to wait till you cross paths with a guy who has an ego equivalent to yours, only then will you find a guy that has the balls to hit on you.
2007-03-29 01:24:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some men like the chase and when they get the prize get bored and find someone else to chase. Its not your fault, you seem confident and self reliant. The right guy will come along in time and then you will see the difference in them. I hope you find him soon ;)
2007-03-27 10:22:23 · answer #9 · answered by mr_scotsguy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you may intimidate them, some blokes get scared if the girl is very good looking, to loud or their mates are winding them, maybe some of your mates are putting them off. it has a lot to do with the bloke as well though, if they can speak to your mates they should be able to speak to you, its never stopped me, whats the worst a girl can say?, no. i always give it a shot, if you dont shoot you wont score. i will take you out.
2007-03-22 08:28:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋