i have a girl which i had recently proposed to she has said yes, stemming off alot of recent events, the other night she was talking about calling the cable people and saying the guy i live with not fiance i had also caught her in a couple lies from as big as her mom trying to cover up the fact she got a ride home from somebody else and told me she got a ride home from her mom to as small as saying she didnt hear her phone ring they have been ongoing and consistant the lies which i mean, than she tells me shes only liying cause she doesnt want to hurt me i believe nothing really and i dont know if the relationship was based on lies or false pretenses of the truth so my question is how would you be able if any to distinguish fact from fiction or does it sound like im just blantently getting played thank you for your help whomever responds
2007-03-22 01:18:57 · 5 answers · asked by SICKAWITDAFLICKA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lies regardless how big or small are lies! if ur going to marry this girl u need to be 100% honest! watch where ur stepping here. it doesnt look good so far.
but talk to her tell her they need to stop or the marrage is off!
2007-03-22 01:23:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My dear friend,
Relations cannot built on lie...
Even if she don't want to break your heart.
Lie never be a permanent solution for a serious relation.Soon or late you learn the truth...
Mean while lie is an endless illness.When it strats it never stop...
It is affecting loyality too...
My own idea break up your relation with her...Otherwise that relation will hurt you more in the future...
2007-03-22 01:27:56 · answer #2 · answered by TURKISH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you have yourself hooked up with a habitual liar.
if they lie about the little things they will surely lie about the big ones
sorry...but I would walk away from it
If you don't have trust you don't have anything to build a relationship on. She lies to you all of the time...take the hint and get out of the relationship.
find an honest person...there are lots of them out there.
be cool...
2007-03-22 01:25:58 · answer #3 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How freaky you are to propose somebody without really knowing her
2007-03-22 01:41:43 · answer #4 · answered by Kehgohar R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is deceit here. Please get out and look for something better!
2007-03-22 01:27:45 · answer #5 · answered by 1967 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋