Has anyone just been confortable alone? Me and my boyfriend broke up about 4 1/2 months ago. It was a terrrible breakup and it hurt really bad when it all happened. I have gone on one date since but I just couldn't have a good time. I just feel like being alone is so much better and easier. Plus it just seems as if i can't get interested in anyone.
2007-03-22 01:15:58 · 11 answers · asked by amber 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be happy you will find that guy! Just wait he might be right around the corner.
2007-03-26 01:07:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ii is good you don't need to have a man to survive a lot of women have to replace the boyfriend with the first man that comes along. That is why they never can get it right because they can't be patient and wait for someone good. I hope you do know there will be someone else for you love does not just happen once in a lifetime as much as the movies make us think that. Give yourself some time you are smart not to jump back in immediately good things come to people who wait.
2007-03-22 08:40:57 · answer #2 · answered by curtianmaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay for you to want to be alone because and most people like to be alone. Especially after that huge break up, but it was four months ago and if you keep on living in the past you'll be alone and miserable for the rest of your life. So try not to have such a negative attitude and try to explore because there are others.
2007-03-22 08:41:59 · answer #3 · answered by Lady T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being single & alone could be comfortable at some point however, i would say that there will still come a time that you will get tired of being alone..you'll still be longing for that someone that you would want to spend the rest of your life with, you would cuddle up with, you would want to see before you go to sleep & someone that will be the very first thing that you see when you wake up..
2007-03-22 09:26:09 · answer #4 · answered by -= Qtee =- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes being alone sometimes can be very comfortable and therapeutic. I think everyone needs time alone and space from time to time. You need to be alone for a while, concentrate on yourself and take time to heal. I know it isn't easy and may seem impossible right now...but with time you will...I promise.
When you feel you are ready... then date again.
There is the right guy out there just waiting to find you.
2007-03-22 08:28:07 · answer #5 · answered by Intelfem7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's totally normal, happened to me about two years ago. I broke up with my first boyfriend, but it took me like a week to get over him. Then his best friend asked me out but we went out on like 3 dates and that's it. Never dated again until exactly a year later, and same thing happened with the second guy. Now (a year later) I rather be alone!! I like it cause I dont have to listen to any idiot telling me he "loves" me when he's actually seeing someone else.
2007-03-22 08:22:04 · answer #6 · answered by Jordi* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good for you to be alone sometimes. You can resolve to be alone for now, and spend more time on yourself and your interests. It's hard to get that back sometimes after you've been with someone for so long. Then one day when you aren't looking you'll find the one for you.
2007-03-22 08:19:32 · answer #7 · answered by wondering 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Sometimes we need time to reflect and just relax from the pressures of relationships.
Give yourself time and don't rush into anything new and when you're ready, then you can go back out into the world of dating.
2007-03-22 08:23:37 · answer #8 · answered by silverlve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I have.
Sometimes we just need that space to heal and learn ourselves.
Use your alone time to figure out what you want out of life, love and everything.
Nothing wrong at all with taking some "you" time...no matter how long it is.
Eventually you will heal and know yourself better and feel good about being around people again...so don't worry and take your time.
be cool...
2007-03-22 08:19:46 · answer #9 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes these things hurt a lot. but sometimes it is also best to stay by ur self so u can collect ur self and then get back out and join the game!
2007-03-22 08:19:36 · answer #10 · answered by J.Funk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋