2007-03-22 01:01:19 · 19 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Secure a job first, marriage second....
2007-03-22 01:46:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure what a proper job has to do with getting married? If you can support yourself and your other half can support their self together you should be able to have a happy life. Money always comes into play in a relationship but bottom line is if you love someone do what you feel. Jobs come and go but true love is hard to find.
2007-03-22 01:37:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I got married when we made about 26,000/year (just 4 years ago) between the two of us in college. I know a lot of people say you shouldn't get married until you can afford it. However, in today's age, that won't happen until you're older. Trust me, if you want to get married, you can make it work regardless of income. There are always ways to make it work. Just think about this, too. What if you had a great job now and got married, but then lost it for some reason? Would you have to get a divorce just because you can't afford things anymore? No. If you are paying for your own wedding, you may not be able to get to extravagant with it, but that's fine. If you get married, at least you'll have your partner to be your teammate in difficult financial times.
2007-03-22 02:13:55 · answer #3 · answered by Lady in Red 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you consider a proper job? Marriage takes more than just that. It's a lot of give and take with lots of trial and errors. You have to have someone willing to share all that with you. If you're not happy with the job you have, change jobs.
2007-03-22 01:07:12 · answer #4 · answered by shrtnsassee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Job is more important than marriage. Only a foolish girl likes to marry a jobless boy. Wise girls see good job, good chracter, God fearig & peace loving nature, good family background, good accomodation, good locality, no in laws' interference in forthcoming married life, no money problem, no chance of burden of household works etc. & complete freedom. So, stop thinking of marriage till u get a good job.
2007-03-22 01:28:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are confusing issues, marry when u find the right partner and is willing to rought it out even during a bad patch, u can marry. Love is free, happiness is free, and u will find a good job to satisfy u. But love and happiness will not come back to u.
2007-03-23 02:42:39 · answer #6 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we have the same problem dude. sometimes settling down with your love one is one big factor for you to start looking for a job immediately. it's like, because of that commitment there's motivation to look for a job as soon as possible, that is if you don't want your family drown in poverty. the best way dude, if you think she is the right one, then marry her, only that you promise to your self that you will find a good job and so give your wife a good future..
2007-03-22 02:13:52 · answer #7 · answered by jedd1216 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are the guidelines for proper job in married-if two people love one another-then go for it-right now your should put your marry on hold and get an education that will help you in your life journey
2007-03-22 01:05:57 · answer #8 · answered by NASTYNANCY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love some one
you should try to understand situation,
because without money you can't go for smooth life.
If you have some job and in future you will earn more than you can do marriage.
And one more thing, what is your age. If you 25 & above you can do.
Try to understand truth love never meets again.
Good job can meet afterwords. If you capable.
2007-03-25 19:27:01 · answer #9 · answered by Annu....... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope ... do not relate these two .... do not stop thinking of marriage ... use the marriage planning as a driving force for getting a good job !!!
Good Luck :)
2007-03-22 01:24:37 · answer #10 · answered by Quiker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get married immediately , at least you will have some job as your partner will not leave you without Any job,.ALL THE BEST
2007-03-22 01:07:12 · answer #11 · answered by blacksheep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋