Every relationship i've been in the guy is a jerk to me is that normal?
2007-03-22 01:00:44 · 9 answers · asked by The_Yack_Myster 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. There are plenty of fish in the sea, you just haven't found your Nemo yet.
nicole
2007-03-22 01:06:00 · answer #1 · answered by nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship, like various friendship, desires to be a 2-way street if it is going to artwork out. the two events might desire to appreciate one yet another and do their area to uphold the relationship. needless to say, every physique is going to make blunders, yet men should not be held to bigger standards than their girlfriends. it is merely ridiculous. putting the load of a relationship on anybody individual's shoulders is a recipe for failure. of path, ladies are going to get indignant at their boyfriends, men are going to get indignant with their girlfriends. yet while men are envisioned to "do extra" for their ladies, and that they are held to an stronger widely used, then relationships could be depressing. this is an unequal partnership, and that may not ok.
2016-11-27 21:49:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Noop...you just aren't going out with the right guys
There are a lot of jerks out there for sure, but there are also way cool guys out there too.
Don't give up...just don't hang onto the jerks too long!
be cool...
2007-03-22 01:13:44 · answer #3 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! Most guys are really great...unfortunately a few bad ones can ruin the rep for all of them. If it were me I would throw that fish back and try again. You need someone you connect with that makes you feel like a princess!
2007-03-22 01:07:38 · answer #4 · answered by sistermarybella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,i had the same problem,ive gone with at least like 35 guys maybe more im not sure i didnt keep track. but they always seem to be jerkish,but now im engaged and he isnt a jerk,well at least most of the time. i believe maybe most guys feel they need to be that way to keep respect and maybe to feel like they are in charge. ya know like one male lion in a pride.
2007-03-22 01:08:36 · answer #5 · answered by HappilyTaken89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is normal because those are the sort of guys that attract you. It is not apparent at first, but it tutns out that way due to your own selection criteria. Try changing it and see what happens.
2007-03-22 01:05:54 · answer #6 · answered by 1967 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a guy is a jerk it's your fault,back in my country we have a saying,cambia tu manera de pensar y cambiaras tu manera de vivir,in plain english it means that if you keep thinking that way,that's the way it will always be.
2007-03-22 02:13:32 · answer #7 · answered by NONAME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means u re doing smth wrong that they start behaving as jerks. usually people like to please others and be liked. so it is very strange how come all of your guys were jerks
2007-03-22 01:04:51 · answer #8 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask yourself... how jerky are you being... you'll find your answer, Not all men are jerks.
2007-03-22 01:12:32 · answer #9 · answered by Deformation Age 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋