i swear im so wierd! my boyfriend is working away from home and i always feel like depressed about it even though its not really a big problem. i feel insecure and just angry/confused and i dont know why?! one minute im fine the next im just upset over nothing and anything!
2007-03-22 00:57:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I WORK 8-6 MONDAY TO FRIDAY. I DIDNT SAY THAT I HAD A LOT OF TIME ON MY HANDS..
2007-03-22 01:06:22 · update #1
Well, you have to figure out what is really going on with you. I have a feeling it has nothing to do with the bf, but that you are just using his working away from home as an excuse for feeling the way you do. Be honest with yourself. One thing that works for me when feeling blue, is exercise. You don't have to join a gym and start lifting weights or anything, just getting out and walking the dog will do. The wind through your hair... wow, just does wonders.
2007-03-22 01:14:09 · answer #1 · answered by suki's mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry that other guy had to be so rude to u.It obviously is a big problem because u love him.its understandable that u could feel this way when he is gone.It will get easier mayb u should tell ur bf u feel this way and mayb he can help u
2007-03-22 08:12:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FEAR!!! yea girl that's whats wrong with you. ur afraid of the loss of love as a result of the distance btw u and ur beau. and i think ur also suffering from mood swings. take care of the fear. when u stop being afraid, u'll be more happy. trust me. the feeling of insecurity results from fear. and remember fear does nothing but ruin happy relationships cos u'll start acting different from the person he fell in love with in the first place. you don't want him to withdraw do you?Men love strong and confident women. so girl, be strong for him cos he'll very much like to come home to a strong and confident woman.
2007-03-22 08:10:15 · answer #3 · answered by kikky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you sound so wierd-maybe you need to be in a lab study-yes it a big problem-why dont you get a job-and work-fill your hours of boredom-get back on your meds-dont no lady but find jesus christ-
2007-03-22 08:03:31 · answer #4 · answered by NASTYNANCY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
insecurity....our minds can be our worste enemy, you have to learn to control that, i always said, and its true, "evil lurks and idol mind" but we can learn to control our thoughts, you should work on that.
2007-03-22 08:14:41 · answer #5 · answered by Lace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋