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I work with this girl. I’ve fallen for her b/c she showed me she liked me (clumsy around me, STEALING GLANCES, the whole EYE CONTACT GAME*, smiling at me) we started talking, became friends. I ask her out, didn't work. seemed like she still wanted to go out. I called her few times. After that her attitude has changed, she only want s to talk about work related things, nothing flirtish* or personal. Doesn’t smile when we talk. and we try to ignore each other. but NOW IT’S KILLING ME. from being all friendly/flirtish to just "hey, what's up?". (Feels like we getting over each other I though I could ignore her, just be frnds, but when she does that back to me, I can't take it.) it HURTS! :(
What did I do wrong? What can I do now?
Why did she make me fall for her if she didn't want to go out? I'm sure I wasn't misunderstood by her charm. I liked her and she liked me back.
I was thinking maybe write her a letter?
THAKNS 4 UR ANS IN ADVANCE!
2007-03-22 00:54:58 · 2 answers · asked by S. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she told me she doesn’t has a boyfriend, but has a kid. we don't really talk at work, just for few mins.
she was all fine, before i stared calling her. but she gave me her number, so i thought she wanted me to call her. I was thinking maybe apologize to her for whatever reason that turned her off? or if i did something wrong? And tell her I just wanted to hang out with you as friends, not into serious relationship.
If you guys have any idea about how I should write her letter? Should I pour your heart into it ?Plz show me.
2007-03-22 01:00:40 · update #1
I'm sure u didn't misunderstand the situation. Out of my experience, I can tell u that she may like u very much,but she is afraid of being in a serious relationship. Or, and that is very likely, she likes setting up men. Any way, I think the best thing u can do is talking frankly with her. Let her know that u love her, and Ur the one. If she doesn't respond, u won't lose her respect
2007-03-22 01:14:19 · answer #1 · answered by Lolo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dun write her a letter... it's the most stupid way to impress a girl...
just be kind to her... seem her as a normal friend. make her happy all the time, she would like u more...
*never try to upset her feeling
2007-03-22 00:59:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋