I've split up with my boyfriend of 2 years we hav a 3 month old son, I cant stop crying i dont no wat im gonna do without him, i love him so much but no matter how much we try and try its not working out. I cant see now cuz my teers have blured everything!
2007-03-22 00:53:12 · 16 answers · asked by Leesa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Bless you poor thing! really wish i could give you a hug hun!...my heart go's out to you!..have you got any friends you can turn too?..coz you really shouldent be on your own right now!...I hope you will be ok, youve really made me worry bout you!
2007-03-22 01:03:47 · answer #1 · answered by Fred 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure why you split up,it would be easier to comment on. I take it u want him back. First u need to think about your son if you are stressed and upset,then so is your baby. I know its hard but take a deep breath and take one day at a time. Your ex will want to see your son(i'm assuming) if your depressed everytime he comes round to see the baby it will make him back off even more,i dont mean to sound harsh but if u still like him and think there is any chance of you getting back together,put on a brave face-dont let yourself go. when he sees u smiling he might think "she got over me quick" also try going out once a week even if its at the local mother and baby class. You will be fine. Good luck. And remember dont mope get out there and do things keep your mind occupied. He will hear about it!!
2007-03-22 08:48:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leesa don't worry it will all work out in the end.
better to split now while the child is still to young to understand why you and his dad are not able to live together.
you will cope without him especially if you can contact his parents and yours to help look after your son.
may be arrange for your parents to baby sit while you go out with old friends and make a few new ones. and who knows you might just might meet someone better for you than your childs father (pressuming i'm reading you correctly and the son is his).
just talk this out with your mom and your closest friends and you will see in the long run this will be for the best. especially if you say you have tried seeral times and it is simply not working out!
whatever good luck to you and your son.
i hope i'm right and it does all work out for you!
2007-03-22 08:01:17 · answer #3 · answered by thebestnamesarealreadytaken0909 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you split up for? Hopefully you will get back together.
Its probably the stress of the new baby. I have similar problems with by boyfriend....everything will work out in the end.
You may also be suffering from a bit of postnatal depression....and not realise it. It took me a while to realise I was suffering from it.
Take care and keep your chin up! Your have a precious angel in the form of your baby and they will bring you so much happiness. x
2007-03-22 08:00:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey...don't worry about it. Give yourself time to be upset over him. My first relationship ended about a mth ago too. I was initially very upset and I didn't know how to handle my emotions after my first breakup. I got depressed for wks I thought I couldn't live without him but I'm still here today.
I'm thankful that I have my girlfriends around me to support me...Go out with your friends! Instead of crying over that guy, concentrate on how to bring up your 3 month old son.
2007-03-22 07:58:59 · answer #5 · answered by Grace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, i think the fact that you share a son makes it even more painfull. Honey, you have to let him go..sounds like have tried everything to mend your relationship. Its ok to cry..in fact its the best thig to do right now..but you cant make someone wanna be with you. focus on your baby and as hard as it seems you have to move on..time really does heal all wounds. Sooner or later he might realise that he made a mistake..if he doesnt then its his loss..maybe you guys need a break...i wish you everything of the best hun!
2007-03-22 07:59:28 · answer #6 · answered by Mercia L 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u dont know how u can cope without him..life dont seem worth living you just want to stay in a dark room and never come out ....but you have something out of that relationship that you will have for the rest of your life..you have a baby.. he obviously isnt much of a father for responsibility to leave a newborn baby with a new mother..so instead of feeling sorry for your self why dont you try and make a stand..your about to face the biggest test of your life if you have to bring this child up alone but befor eyou think about not being capable of doing it wthot him......think about how proud you can be of yourself in 10 years time looking back
you are after getting a knock and its up to you to get right back up again and face the music..lifes is one sorry ***** but thats just the way things go.. put all your energy and thoughts into your son now and try forget about the dad and if he sees you coping and being strong whose to say he wont come back with his tail between his legs...now you have to fight for yourself and your son..make him and yourself proud..ye are all that matters now.....i wish you the best of luck from the bottom of my heart....
2007-03-22 07:59:16 · answer #7 · answered by Irishlass 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might feel really horrible now, but trust me in time you won't be so sad.
You're probably already busy because you have a child, but try to spend time with your friends or relatives who will support you during this rough patch.
At least you found the strength to call it quits.
2007-03-22 08:01:06 · answer #8 · answered by acorn922 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You´ve got to be strong for your son. It its not meant to be with your fella then what can you do? Crying is not going to solve anything. If you both really love one another and really want it to work, get some counselling.
2007-03-22 07:59:10 · answer #9 · answered by monkienutz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get all ur crying done, cry it all out.
remember u have got 2 b strong 4 ur baby.
he needs u 2,
when ur ready wipe away ur tears & b the best mother u can b.
this hurt will ease in time.
2007-03-22 08:01:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋