I have been in a self imposed isolation from relations for past 7years now. It was not that i did not wanted one, but the fear of pain of separation and betrayal overshadowed the prospect of being emotionaly attached.
Now i am desperate to have someone in life, as i find myself in a big emotional void.
What do you suggest, Is emotional isolation just a term, or shall i be bold enough to prepare for another heartbreak and just enter a relationship?
2007-03-22 00:35:01 · 3 answers · asked by Brave Heart 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"No man is an island, entire of itself; every man is a piece of the continent, a part of the main; if a clod be washed away by the sea, Europe is the less...any man's death diminishes me, because I am involved in mankind..." - John Donne
I would say that you should try and go for a relationship. heartbreak is a possibility but long term isolation isn't much better in the long run. Realize that if you get out there you will find "the one" eventually - if you don't chances are they will not appear on your doorstep.
start of easy and ease your way onto the dating scene - good luck!
2007-03-22 00:40:20 · answer #1 · answered by maybelle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand. It can get tiring being an "island".
Send that message out in a bottle. :)
Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Right?
Good luck. I hope your heart finds what it is looking for.
2007-03-22 00:46:44 · answer #2 · answered by no cutesy name : ) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all...
good luck x x
2007-03-22 00:45:45 · answer #3 · answered by Irishlass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋