why does this guy fancy me but cant "offer me anymore" ?? we live about 2 hours away from each other and hes just started seein this girl, so he can offer her more but not me! hes 33 and im 24 and this new girl is 34. he has just come out of a long term relationship too
2007-03-22 00:31:26 · 28 answers · asked by Kyra 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is as a friend, don't get to a relationship!
2007-03-30 00:28:08 · answer #1 · answered by marina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like either he see the distance aas a problem or he sees you as more "just a friend" and not a pottential lover (the loser).
so as he has a new woman, move on, forget him, and may be if you really want him he may come around to you in time. get a new guy (don't use the new guy, look at it like a possible long term relationship (assuming that is what you are looking for)) now tell the old guy about your new guy and how happy he makes you. if the old guy is in to you romantically at all he will get very jealous. if not then he will be all "i'm very happy to hear that" or words to that effect.
to be perfectly frank i'm sure you could easily do better. so good luck and the sooner you forget that sad loser the beter!!!
2007-03-22 00:42:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds confused, and not surprisingly since he just got out of a long term relationship. Probably he's unsure, insecure too. So leave him be for your own sake, before you get dragged into the confusion.
He has to sort himself out first. If you can be a friend, then do so. But it seems you have strong feelings for him; and he is just not ready for real commitment. You sound like you want commitment. I am sure, you will find someone else who will be committed to you. Focus on something else.
You and he are at different stages in your life. It's as simple as that.
2007-03-29 16:57:02 · answer #3 · answered by 3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are cowards and when they aren't interested in a girl they will think of any excuse in the book to prevent themselves from having to say "i don't like you". so take the hint, that he'd rather be with her than you, no matter what the excuse, read between the lines. hes a coward and a bum. find someone better.
2007-03-28 18:12:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is just his polite way of saying he doesnt want you. HE doenst know how to tell you now the focus is on him for not being able to offer anything..if he has nothing to offer then you have nothing to accept..get on with your life..
2007-03-27 22:25:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's more fish in the sea, so start swimming and you can do alot better, as your young and life's just being. Don't stress about a man, make yourself happy, good luck
2007-03-29 01:28:37 · answer #6 · answered by Busgirl2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try putting up with my boyfriend, he goes from being all over you to disappearing for days, sometime a month. He likes his own space, he also likes to sulk, so men can be complicated, I've been with Ian over 3 years, you just get used to it after a while. xxx
2007-03-22 00:55:09 · answer #7 · answered by Joanne W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you knew he was damaged or used goods when you took him on I doubt you can get him exchanged at where this sod was found nor compensation for your troubles. Be glad this poor fit didn't result in physical injury. If he is on someone ...
frankly, be happy for your good experiences but move on.
2007-03-26 14:52:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kyra, please dont stress ur self they are reall not worth it , pick a guy that is head over heels for u and wants to treat u like u deserve cause if u keep running after him that is what u will be doing for ever . And trust me its not fun
2007-03-22 00:39:05 · answer #9 · answered by eyatnesrine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cannot offer you anymore because he isn't "into you". He really likes the new girl, so he can offer her more.
2007-03-22 00:35:13 · answer #10 · answered by Abby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because probablly the man found something to the 34yr old lady that was not found in u..sometimes there are things that will always stay as they are just like in your in case.maybe his just happy with your frienship unless u already had sex with him then thats another story
2007-03-29 16:49:16 · answer #11 · answered by maamorc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋