I met my ex through a my flatmate and she used to come over to see me and her friend, we recently split up and she seems to spend more time at our flat than ever before, she has practically moved into the other room. i cant even leave my room without seeing her. i feel bad for her because she doesnt like her flat or her flatmates but i find myslef hating being in my own flat because she is always there and i still have feelings for her.
2007-03-22 00:19:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have a few choices:
1. Talk with her and ask her not to come around for awhile - to be sensitive to your feelings.
2. Find a new flat.
3. Move into her flat.
2007-03-22 00:25:02 · answer #1 · answered by J F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then what is the problem now, if you really feel that you have feelings for her, then go and express it, but remember this is life & not a train or a bus or a dress that you keep leaving & changing, so make up your mind, think what you need eaxctly. Do you really like her & want her for your rest of the life, no matteer after having her you may face several problems or have fights never leave each other, as it is a part of life, when problems comes happiness too comes behind them. So, best of luck.
2007-03-22 07:30:03 · answer #2 · answered by Jairam K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like to me she aint leaving for a reason..I for sure know I wouldn't want to live with my ex unless i was feeling something...does she seem to give jealous reactions if you are talking to another female ..say on the phone or something? If you dont feel she wants you back ad that is not at all what she is wanting then it is time to move on and tell her you need your space and you are sorry but it don't feel right living together after you had once had a relationship..
2007-03-22 07:26:11 · answer #3 · answered by sonialynnl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest u find a nice looking girl and invite her to visit u very often. when this ex of yours see that u found someone much better she wouldn't want to hang out there any more. new girl would make her uncomfortable. now she knows her presence is making u uncomfortable, that's why she is spending all her time there. so give her her own medicine. good luck
2007-03-22 07:38:43 · answer #4 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest you talk to her and tell her exactly how you feel. either that or you learn to live with the feelings. most girls dont like causing people discomfort so she will understand. good luck
2007-03-22 07:55:34 · answer #5 · answered by LusT aFter INsaNIty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cant u move out
2007-03-22 07:28:58 · answer #6 · answered by zara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋