There's a guy who's coming to my office and asks for some documents from one of my colleagues. But he always asks me out and brings flowers to me, even though he is calling her up almost twice a day. The point is he never calls me up.
What should i think of him? Is he interested in me or in her?
2007-03-22 00:17:13 · 21 answers · asked by AnneMarie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
seems to me that this guy is just getting off on the fact that both of you like him. he is foolish to be messing with two girls that work together, he is probably thinking you two will end up fighting over him.
forget this guy, anyone can spare a few quid for flowers if they think they are gona get something back, but if he was really interested in you he wouldnt be calling her.
let her have him, he will probably lose interest in her soon enough
2007-03-28 10:20:46 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs_W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didn't you already ask this and got the answer that he is into her and keeping you as back up?
Did you think asking again you'd get an answer you liked?
Sorry to say, he is playing both of you, he sounds like an asshole, going for your friends with full force and keeping you as a back up
Don't play into it and become one of those girls heartbroken by a guy you knew was an asshole from the start
2007-03-22 07:21:25 · answer #2 · answered by Chyme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bottom line is IF he was interested , the easiest thing in the world would be to call and ask you on a date. Afterall he does have your number. why haven't you said yes if hes asked you?
2007-03-22 07:22:14 · answer #3 · answered by looby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he calling her with work related topics? if not, he may be playing you both. be careful, and you could always just asked what's up with the flowers and no phone calls.
2007-03-22 07:20:58 · answer #4 · answered by Barbi W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is stringing you both along and simply wants a choice. I can guarantee if he is taking you out on the Friday night, you would see him out with her on the Sat night. Be the smart one and walk away.
2007-03-22 07:24:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's playing you both!he's calling her but he's bringing you flowers?wtf?i think you and your colleague should turn the tables.and play him!mess with his head.teach him a lesson!thats what i would do...
2007-03-22 07:24:33 · answer #6 · answered by Itsjustme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be interested in the both of you.If he is taking you out & buying you flowers then it has to be you.
2007-03-29 08:02:02 · answer #7 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ithink you know the answer. He is playing both of you and he is only there for one thing and one thing only.you should kick him to the curb and find someone new that is so much better for you and deserves someone like you.
2007-03-22 07:34:56 · answer #8 · answered by CUTIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the reason that he is calling her up?Is it for business or pleasure.if it is for business then he is interested in you.Why don't you ask the other girl whether anything is going on between them? Good luck.
2007-03-22 07:21:52 · answer #9 · answered by Student 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not sure why hes not calling you if you are going on dates with him. maybe shes just a work related friend. are you friends with her? ask her what she thinks of him and go from there. you may be just reading into it too much
2007-03-22 07:20:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋