i am going out with this guy well he is married, and i really love him but i don't want him to dump his wife becouse of me. he hasen't told me jet but i heard he want to divorce her. should i dump him or should i let him divorce her becouse of me? please help.
2007-03-22 00:07:59 · 18 answers · asked by Esther S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should leave him, if he can cheat on his wife with you, he will cheat on you with someone else when he gets bored. recipe for disaster.
2007-03-22 00:11:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. He is married and if the marrage fails after you left then it isnt your fault. Let them try to make it work, will you be able to live with yourself knowing that you caused a marriage to break up? They always say they will leave the wife when in reality they wont. How you met him is how you will lose him and you definately deserve better than someone elses leftovers.
2007-03-22 07:24:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First find out what you want. you want to marry him or it is just infatuation. In the second case you can tell your interest and he may accept and both can enjoy for some time till you both got bored of each other and split. In the first case you can speak to his wife and let her know your interest. It is likely that she accept you as her husband secon wife. But in both cases mind you that guy is real lucky guy.
2007-03-22 07:39:21 · answer #3 · answered by chandra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until he gets divorced. if he loves you he'll dump his wife for you. if not, he is not worth of you.
you're free, you can date any man you want. why waste your time on a man who cheats his wife?
sorry, but this is what he's trying to do.
and at least you could let him go, not making his game.
2007-03-22 07:23:57 · answer #4 · answered by AnneMarie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i doubt he will dump his wife for you...why would he when hes got dinner on the table every day and a bit on the side as well?
Do you really want a guy who would cheat on his wife anyway?
2007-03-22 13:33:59 · answer #5 · answered by lil c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you want to called a home wrecker? guess not! stop dating him! its a bad idea! how would you feel if your husband does the same thing to you?! it wil hurt a lot! especially when there are kids involve, if i were you, stay out of their lives and live your own, there are many men out there that arent attached, are you not tired dating a man having responsibilities other than his own? think girl! you're better than this!
2007-03-22 07:57:34 · answer #6 · answered by ~rAveLic!oUs~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of this situation. There is nothing for you to gain and everything to lose, including your self-respect. Don't be 'the other woman'. Have enough pride in yourself to be the 'one and only' woman. And find a guy that hasn't sworn to 'have and to hold, in sickness and in health' to another woman.
2007-03-22 07:15:05 · answer #7 · answered by ferociousnibbler 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater. He will get bored with you in a couple of years and do the same thing to you. Get out now.
2007-03-22 07:15:42 · answer #8 · answered by Alicia E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you dating a married man in the first place!!?
2007-03-22 07:10:55 · answer #9 · answered by Jenni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u are both serious and this is wat u want then why not! at the end of the day if his marriage isnt working its not ur fault right?? Let him make his own choices but tell him u want him to do it because he wants to and not purely because of u coz if u guys dont work out u dont want him to blame u for his divorce.
2007-03-22 07:17:33 · answer #10 · answered by zara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello? I'm sure you can do better than being "the other woman" in a marital breakup.
Do you really want to be that person?
2007-03-22 07:15:26 · answer #11 · answered by .......... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋