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My ex dumped me and his reasons were that he was unhappy and didn't feel the same way about but DOESN"T KNOW WHY. I asked him every possible reason things like he felt bored, did I not satisfy him emotionally or sexually, did he felt restricted and wanted freedom, did I change for the worst or is it something that does not involve me, only him like, does he want to be in a relationship, or does he still want to play considering he's 22, or is he commitment phobic, scraed, or if he found or fancies someone else every possible reason I could think of. But he denies all of it and says I don't know why I am unhappy but I don't feel the same way about you anymore. He admitted to pretend at the end that nothing was wrong which made me feel like a fool. All that time while pretending he was thinking about ending us. He also said that he did want the relationship to work and waited if anything changed but it didn't. What does this mean? Is he hiding something?

2007-03-22 00:07:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

11 answers

Please don't believe for a moment that there is something wrong with you.He is young and he is not ready for a commitment.Let him go and love will find it's way to you sooner or later.I know it won't be easy especially if you love the person,but you can't force someone to love you or to commit to you.Good luck.

2007-03-22 00:12:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If he was unhappy, he was unhappy. That's all there is too it.

Sometimes, people just end up not "clicking" with people, and it aggravates them, no matter how bad they want it to work. He probably couldn't tell you the exact reason, cause he didn't know. If he was hiding something, it will probably come out later, but it just sounds like a case of him not liking you as much as you do him - and him realizing it.

2007-03-22 00:12:26 · answer #2 · answered by Kaja 5 · 0 0

No,he`s not hiding anything he was being as honest as he could be,sometimes these things happen,I when I was young have gone through similar situations don`t worry he may change in a few weeks & providing you are still free will try & give your relationship another go.At least you amicable split up that goes a long way these days.

2007-03-22 00:13:03 · answer #3 · answered by edison 5 · 0 0

Umm big question

Yes he may have been just unhappy and wanted a fresh start.
You may have bored him and he didnt' want to hurt you by telling the truth so he said he is unhappy.

2007-03-22 00:10:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

yes you can be unhappy for no apparent reasion, it happens to me a lot, we cant think of anything wrong but we just change mabey it was just a time fore change these things happen and arnt rare

2007-03-22 00:15:13 · answer #5 · answered by flutterbye 1 · 0 0

I doubt if anyone can be unhappy for no reason. It seems like it is time for you to move on.

2007-03-22 00:11:56 · answer #6 · answered by kicking_back 5 · 0 1

very possibly...my husband now before we got married...came home one day and told me he was unhappy..and he moved me out and got me a car...later he begged me back saying he was getting cold feet but he also was seeing someone else..so i forgave him only because he truely convinced me he love me ....realizing it after our break up...that he really loved me.we have been happily married two years now....hes never shown any signs that hed cheat again..

2007-03-22 00:21:14 · answer #7 · answered by lisa t 2 · 0 0

Yes you can be unhappy for no apparent reasons. Unhappy for abstract reasons.

2007-03-22 00:11:39 · answer #8 · answered by Kushal the great 2 · 0 1

He got tried of the same ol vagina. That is the real answer.

2007-03-22 00:25:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

No, he's not hiding anything, he simply wants to move on.
You too, move on now.

2007-03-22 00:10:49 · answer #10 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 1 0

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