I am a decent guy, cute, I have a great job, education, I weight lift so I am in shape...but damn this girl is just way out of my league....so how do I get her? Or do I simple don't?
2007-03-22 00:06:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you have already shot yourself down by stating "she is out of my league" That poor attitude will shine right through and no woman wants to see a lack of confidence!
And a woman is not a car....you can't "get her"!
I think you should be confident in who you are, see if you can find a common interest you may share and then ask her out to do something that relates to it. Be sure she is not dating anyone before doing anything......
2007-03-22 00:14:24 · answer #1 · answered by BeFit4U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question, Chigga. A lot of guys won't say that a woman is out of their league, but they'll think it ... and won't pursue the woman of their dreams. Don't be that guy.
For starters, as the women have already stated, dismiss the she's-out-of-my-league notion. While you probably don't need lots of money, great looks, or bulging biceps to woo her, you do need lots of confidence.
Studies have shown that both women and men find confidence the most appealing feature in someone of the opposite sex. The great thing about confidence is, even when you're terrified on the inside, you can still project it. It may not be easy, but it is doable.
Second, don't be awed by her. She's rich and uncommonly beautiful? Great. But don't treat her any better or worse than you would any other woman. She's probably accustomed to men giving her whatever she wants, whenever she wants it ... if you're different, she'll notice. And she'll respect you.
Finally, remember this: every woman wants to feel desired. Not lusted after; desired. Wanna separate yourself from the other guys? Romance her. Buying a woman a tennis bracelet on Valentine's Day is nice; sending her a single rose at work, just because, is romantic. So is an old-fashioned, handwritten letter that says, "I'm thinking about you."
Trust me, Chigga: you'll feel much better if you try and things don't work out, than if you don't try at all.
Good luck.
2007-03-22 10:42:07 · answer #2 · answered by BlakWriter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think she's out of your league?
Act like you don't think she's too good for you, we girls love confidence. Once you have her attention, treat her as well as a decent, cute guy can and if she's worth it she'll be as good to you.
2007-03-22 07:11:30 · answer #3 · answered by KyLeth 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go to the hood
2007-03-22 07:10:33 · answer #4 · answered by B rabit 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋