I really have trouble talking to women or girls....?

Question

I am 22 & i am finishing university this year.But the fact remains that whenever I am talking to a girl (most of the time)I am sexually excited in a very extreme way that influences my way of looking & ... .What should be done about this?

Answer 1

I had and still have the same problem. Girls already know that they can find ANY man who wants to sleep with them, within a shout from their building. Knowing you have all these options, they are probably used to EVERY line that´s ever been said. But here is how I try to do; I try to say things that no guy has ever said to her, while being sweet, cute, and funny. I give her the impression that I will not hurt her just as I wouldn´t hurt anybody else. I put her on the same pedestal that everybody else is on. I try to make it look like I am giving her the chance to talk to me. And my friend, basically you will have to work on NOT differentiating between women, good looking women, etc...I personally LOVE all women, and I can find something beautiful in EACH one that exists. So I don´t end up making them such ´high goddesses´. As a matter of fact, I´ll talk to Cindy the SAME way I´ll talk to Rhonda or Frank. Btw, I am also very FRANK with them. Kind of like a, this is what I have to offer, take it how you will, (without saying anything) type of thing. Also, the more sexual relations you have, the more experienced you get in the fine (never-ending) lesson of the art of making LOOOOOOOVE, you WILL become more confident. It´ll be more of a casual thing, the more you kiss, the more you date, the more you ´do the wild dance of the monkey people´, and you WILL get better. Just stay confident. Realize and say to yourself (if you have to) I am the MAAAAAAAN. And I am giving these chicas the priviledge of talking and flirting with ME. Honestly, if 20 different girls a day made comments on how handsome you were, then you would be pretty arrogant too. Just remember a strong woman, can make you feel 20 miles high, and then make you feel like nothing, a minute later. Love and Respect.

Answer 2

maybe your staring to much. antoher things was that the best thing you can do is to control yourself, dont make it an excuse that you cant., your mind can take over all your senses., do it tol, step by step, till you master your own emotion... you yourself know and feel kung gaano kasagwa. do it pare., kaya mo yan, kaw pa. do it for yourself. i trust you

Answer 3

Sorry to say that, but find a girl and have sex with. You probably need to have your first time sex. After, you won't be shy though

Answer 4

at your age you should think a lot before making a decision since you are young and you should take care

Answer 5

Think in ur mind,....THAT GIRL IS MY SISTER!!
Maybe u'll stop lookin like that then...

Answer 6

best advice: get laid...