There's a guy who's coming to my office and asks for some documents from one of my colleagues. But he always asks me out and brings flowers to me, even though he is calling her up almost twice a day. The point is he never calls me up.
What should i think of him? Is he interested in me or in her?
2007-03-21 23:48:14 · 7 answers · asked by AnneMarie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He doesn't know what he wants. I don't think he's a player, cause what he's doing isn't smooth at all. He's probably a little shy, I think he likes one of you, but is calling/bring flowers for the other to protect himself. So should one of you reject him, he can say "well I wasn't really interested"
2007-03-21 23:51:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to my view there might be 2 things taking place, 1-He is interested in you, that is the reason he brings flowers for you, about the call, he is asking your colleague about you, like what are you doing now, how do you spend the entire day, how was your day, your likes/dislikes, and more about you. The 2nd thing could be, he is flutering around with U & your colleague. I think you both should have straight talks with him & also keep an eye that he is not doing the same with other females & cheating them.
2007-03-22 06:56:52 · answer #2 · answered by Jairam K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could be genuinely interested in you and is just friends with the other girl, or he is playing the field, seeing who gives in first. planting many seeds, seeing which one grows. i'd say sit back and see what unfolds while not taking any of his advances too seriously, see what you can learn at the water cooler haha
2007-03-29 01:09:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's interested in both of you. If he can't have her he will settle for you. I have to assume she is the primary choice since he is calling her not you. Sorry, but your best bet is to send him packing!
2007-03-22 06:51:34 · answer #4 · answered by jingles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
calling ur colleague doesnt signify that he doesn't like u !!! try going out with him once may be u will get ur answers!! and y worry u aren't in any relationship with him....
2007-03-22 06:53:23 · answer #5 · answered by mona s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 variants
1. He is interested in you and play Hard To Get
2. He is interested in her and again play hard to get;)
2007-03-22 07:07:02 · answer #6 · answered by cherry 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is business with her, and monkey business with you.
2007-03-22 07:13:34 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋